Why are the elderly more and more afraid of the Chinese New Year? A 66-year-old man spoke his mind, saying that he had to get through it if he was afraid, and he couldn't put it off. The old man also told his troubles, and every word he said was reasonable, and after listening to it, he realized that the old man's troubles were really in his heart. Many old people have to start preparing for the New Year's food and drink, clean the house, and wipe the glass in order to reunite their children. The old rules of our northeast side, to steam steamed steamed buns, to steam sticky bean buns, as well as fried fish, some people also kill pigs, this set of old people have to work hard for several days, so tired that they can't go up to the kang, think about the New Year are stunned, said that the New Year is a kind of torture, but these are not counted, the most painful is the following 3 points.
The first is that there is no money for the New Year, some elderly people have no salary, and they have to take care of left-behind children, children with hearts, know to give their parents some money, but some children may not have a good life, do not give their parents money, and ask their parents to prepare for the New Year's food, and leave after a few days of eating. Especially for the New Year, you have to give the child a red envelope, in the child's mind, I give you a New Year's greeting, and you have to give me money if you say hello. How hard is it for children to know the elderly? The bag is less, the child is afraid of picking the door, the bag is too much, the life is still passing, and there is no child to give money. The old man also wants to be generous, and he also wants to pack more, who has powder and doesn't wipe it on his face, but the conditions are limited, the old man with a pension can be better, it's a big deal that this month is spent, and the money will come next month. However, a large number of people are elderly people who do not have wages.
The second is that the old man has to cook and serve these little ones to eat and drink. When the children come back, they go to bed late, they get up late, and in the morning the sun shines on their buttocks, and they don't get up, and in the morning the old man has already made his meal, put it in the pot, and shouts several times and does not get up. I finally got up to eat, after eating and drinking, the dishes and chopsticks were pushed, the mahjong should be played, the mobile phone should be brushed, and the dishes and chopsticks should not be cleaned up, and the old man had to do it himself. The old man not only has to cook, but also to clean up the kitchen, but also to clean up the dishes and chopsticks, the old man is old, how tired! When all the housework is done, no one talks to the children, they are all playing with their mobile phones and playing mahjong. When the old man sat on the kang, he felt like a superfluous one. These children, just stay at home for a few days, and then leave in a flash. The old man felt that he was so tired, what was he trying to do, it was really not worth it.
Third, some children do not go home for reunion during the New Year, knowing that our traditional festival Spring Festival is the most solemn festival, but some children feel that they take advantage of their annual leave, and their other half and children go on vacation, to snub their parents, they really take their parents as outsiders, in order to have peace of mind, send a ** to their parents, send a red envelope to their parents, they feel at ease, isn't it the age of their parents, this age is really a glance less, I don't know how to accompany well, Won't you regret it later? Such children are not filial, they think that if they send a ** to their parents, their parents will see him, then I want to say, then since you want to travel, there are **everywhere on the **now**, every scenic spot has **, then you can see it at home, why do you need to travel? Especially when parents see that other people's children have returned, but their own children have not returned, what is the use of such children no matter how good you are? It's 0 for parents.
Here it is recommended to go home to see your parents, since you have returned to your hometown, let your eyes rest, don't always look at your phone, accompany your parents more, chat more, after all, you are far away, it is difficult for parents to see each other, parents communicate more, talk more, it is not easy to go home once, parents are older, it is rare to really see one. Friends in front of the screen, I don't know if you think the New Year also has a feeling of torment and torture? Comments are welcome!