The heroine Chen Wei has never done housework in 31 years of marriage, and her husband wastes her talent by doing housework
Chen Wei, a graduate student of the Military Medical College, an academician of the Academy of Engineering, and a major general of the People's Liberation Army who is well-known in the field of national defense, has attracted much attention for her talent.
In 2003, Chen Wei led the team to successfully develop a drug to inhibit SARS; In 2014, she successfully developed a recombinant Ebola vaccine, which solved a worldwide problem and won praise at home and abroad.
At the beginning of 2020, in the face of the new crown epidemic, Chen Wei devoted herself to the anti-epidemic work without hesitation, and after more than 50 days of unremitting efforts, she and her team finally successfully developed a new crown vaccine, making great contributions to protecting the lives of hundreds of millions of compatriots.
Chen Wei's achievements have been highly recognized, and on September 8, 2020, she was awarded the honorary title of "People's Hero" and became a hero in the hearts of the people.
It is worth mentioning that Chen Wei is a great man who silently supports her behind her.
This man's name is Ma Yiming.
One day in 1989, Ma Yiming was riding a train from Beijing to Qingdao and stumbled upon a girl, Chen Wei, who ignored the shaking of the carriage and the hustle and bustle of the crowd, and looked intently at a book.
Just as Ma Yiming was attracted by her concentration, Chen Wei suddenly raised her head, and their eyes met in the air.
Embarrassment, Ma Yiming patted the seat next to him and invited Chen Wei to come and sit.
Chen Wei looked at Ma Yiming's simple face and did not feel uneasy, so she walked over and sat down.
During the journey, they talked happily. Through the conversation, Chen Wei learned that Ma Yiming was 12 years older than herself and was a winery technician. And Ma Yiming also knew that Chen Wei was a graduate student of Zhejiang University who was sent to Tsinghua University.
Ma Yiming had a good impression of Chen Wei, but the gap in age and education made him feel inferior.
As the train drove to the destination, the two were about to separate, and Ma Yiming mustered up the courage to ask Chen Wei for ***
Chen Wei left a good impression on Ma Yiming and gave him *** without hesitation
A week later, the ** bell rang in Chen Wei's dormitory, and Ma Yiming was waiting for her at Tsinghua University.
They kept in touch over long distances and eventually came together.
However, once the news reached her family and friends, Chen Wei was blamed, everyone thought that her vision was problematic, and some even thought that Ma Yiming was not worthy of her.
Ma Yiming's family also felt that Chen Wei was too young to live a stable life with him.
However, the words of others could not change the determination of the two men. Chen Wei has always been decisive and firm, once a decision is made, it is difficult for others to change it.
To prove his determination, Ma Yiming quit his job and decided to live in Beijing with Chen Wei.
They rented a cottage of less than 20 square meters with only a bed, a sofa and a gas stove to cook.
However, this did not affect their happy life, on the contrary, it strengthened their determination to work hard for life.
In 1990, when Chen Wei was about to graduate, major biological companies extended olive branches to her. After much deliberation, she chose a well-known company to start her career in Shenzhen.
Ma Yiming saw that Chen Wei had found a professional home, and he made up his mind to catch up with her and ensure that she could live a happy and beautiful life.
However, just when the two thought that everything was a foregone conclusion, fate quietly changed.
In April 1991, Chen Wei came to the Academy of Military Medical Sciences by chance. After visiting the college, she was in awe.
Suddenly, she remembered the historical background of this academy - during the Korean War, it was established in order to urgently order outstanding scientists.
Therefore, Chen Wei made up her mind to resign from her current company and devote herself to the cause of national defense. However, when her family heard of the decision, they objected.
Only Ma Yiming firmly supported Chen Wei, because he believed that Chen Wei would have a better development in the army.
With Ma Yiming's support, Chen Wei no longer has any worries. She immediately packed her bags and headed to the Academy of Sciences in Fengtai Township.
Fengtai Town is remote and severe, and the life of the army is extremely harsh and boring. In addition, Chen Wei occasionally encounters some setbacks, and she has experienced grievances and collapses.
However, Ma Yiming often came to visit Chen Wei with supplies, which moved her, and her troubles gradually dissipated.
In the end, the steadfastness of the two also touched the parents of both sides. In 1992, they tied the knot.
After marriage, Ma Yiming took care of housework while working, never let Chen Wei participate in housework, nor let her worry about anything, and wholeheartedly supported her scientific research.
In 1998, they welcomed their son. Although the child was just a month old, Chen Wei hurried to the laboratory.
The chores at home, such as feeding and changing diapers, are all taken care of by Ma Yiming, but he never complains and takes care of the children and the family carefully.
In 2003, when SARS was raging, Chen Wei and her team members guarded the laboratory day and night, and even put on ** diapers in order to save time.
Fortunately, they have successfully developed the first drug to inhibit SARS in China.
Hearing this news, people outside Chen Wei's team finally breathed a sigh of relief. However, the child, who had not seen his mother for more than 100 days, began to complain about her.
Ma Yiming patiently explained the nature of his mother's work to his son, and said: "Mom is a hero, we should understand her and support her." ”
Although the child may not fully understand, at least he knows that a hero is a person who does good deeds. So whenever he sees his mother on TV, he always kisses her on the screen.
In 2004, my country successfully repelled SARS, and Chen Wei became famous in a fight, but she was not complacent because of this and continued to move forward.
In Wenchuan in 2008, Chen Wei rushed to the disaster area for epidemic prevention work as soon as possible;
In 2014, Chen Wei led the team to develop a recombinant Ebola vaccine, which shocked China and abroad.
In 2020, Chen Wei and her team successfully developed a new crown vaccine after more than 50 days and nights of unremitting efforts. For this, Chen Wei was awarded the "People's Hero" National Medal of Honor.
In an interview with reporters, Chen Wei choked up and said: "The vaccine patent is our original, and we don't have to look at other people's faces on any occasion!" ”
The new crown vaccine is our confidence, Chen Wei is also our confidence, and we are our hero!
It is precisely because of countless heroes like Chen Wei who are selfless and courageous that we can live such a stable and reassuring life.
We should not ignore the Ma Yiming behind Chen Wei, who silently gave everything for her, so that she could focus on the cause of national defense without any worries.
As we all know, behind a successful man there is often a woman who pays silently. Nowadays, however, there may also be a man behind a successful woman who is quietly dedicated.
Therefore, in advocating for equality between men and women, we look forward to the emergence of more new ideas. Don't just think that women should be responsible for housework and childcare, men can also play an important role in the family, as Ma Yiming said in an interview: "Letting Chen Wei do housework is equivalent to wasting her talent!" ”