Recently, I have swiped several versions of similar short **, the content of which is the happy life of two divorced women with children who form a "divorced partner". One of them has a car, the other has a house, each has a child, and they don't want to remarry after the divorce, so they live together, make money together to support the family, take care of the children together, eat and drink together, don't have to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, don't look at anyone's face, and look happy and happy.
Not to mention the authenticity of the content, the comments below are unexpected. Most of the comments were expressions of understanding and support. There are also many women who say they want to find such a partner to live with. Some people say that this is actually much better than finding a man who doesn't care about things and causes trouble. Others say that it is more difficult for those men to get married.
Recently, I have been paying attention to people's thinking and discussion about the future marriage situation. There is an argument that marriage may die in the future. Because more and more people, especially women, are reluctant to get married.
Going back decades, it was very difficult for a woman to get married when she reached her age, or to live with children after divorce and no longer get married. The pressure of the family, the discussion of the people around them, and the pointing and pointing make people feel that divorced women are inferior everywhere.
However, now, older women who are not married, divorced women who live alone, can live the life they want according to their own will, and there are no longer many strange eyes around them, and their happiness is even the envy of many women in marriage.
The times are indeed different, most of the women in this era have said goodbye to the love brain, and marriage is no longer the destination that everyone yearns for. The generation of girls who watched Qiong Yao ** watched a lot back then, once regarded love as big as the sky, how many people were desperate for love moths to put out the fire, sacrificing themselves and going astray, how many people walked into an unblessed marriage with illusions, and were whipped all over their bodies by life, only to find that the reality is cruel, and the hero in Qiong Yao** only exists in imagination. After many years, I realized that love is actually an ethereal existence, and a man's sweet promise is like a gust of wind, but the pain and pain in marriage are real.
A while ago, there was a popular short ** on the Internet, and when many women were asked by interviewers "what are the benefits of marriage", they couldn't answer what benefits marriage gave them.
If you talk to middle-aged and elderly women, you will find that too many married men disappoint women who are full of expectations. Looking around, it is not without couples around us who raise their eyebrows, and it is not without responsible and caring men. But it is undeniable that there are still a considerable number of men, PUA, NPD, mom bao men, domestic violence men, cheating men and other scum have their own merits. Either women are regarded as tools for childbirth and nannies who take care of daily life, or they cannot take on the responsibility of supporting their families, or they turn a blind eye to family affairs, leaving economic pressure and difficulties to women. There are also men who control their wives from the economy to their behavior, not to mention domestic violence, indifference, cheating, PC and other unacceptable behaviors.
There was a street interview in which the interviewer asked a few boys: If you get married and get divorced, will you have children? Everyone's answer is no, either they are too busy to take it, or they are not easy to find others, or they should be brought by their mothers. I really can't imagine what kind of girl will marry such a boy in the future, and what kind of selfish calculation such a boy will be after getting married. If society is full of men like this, how can women not feel lonely and helpless, and how can they not have a fear of marriage?
Fortunately, society is progressing, and more and more women are becoming independent both financially and spiritually. There are many scarred women who have come out of their marriages and found that the sky in the liberated areas was so clear: they earn their own money and spend it, bring their own children, and buy whatever they want to eat, so why do they pin their happiness and hope on a man who has broken their body and mind to be a free nanny? Therefore, we see that among the divorced people around us, men will basically remarry quickly, but many women prefer to be single all the time.
In recent years, there have been more and more women who do not want to remarry, and even those girls who have never been married do not want to get married. They said that they would never marry or have children, stay young forever, stay away from scumbags, and live a hundred years.
Fortunately, the social environment is becoming more and more tolerant of single women. Compared with the divorced women in previous years, who suffered discrimination and experienced the hardships of life, women today are really happy. Because, everyone is gradually understanding a truth: marriage is for happiness, divorce is for happiness, and not marriage is also for happiness.
And the emergence of women's "divorce partners" is a new way of life.
A divorced woman raising children independently and without a partner often faces a lot of inconveniences in life. In the case of not being able to find or unwilling to find a remarriage companion of the opposite sex, it is also an option to find a compatible woman to live with.
Two women who have experienced unhappy marriages can support each other, and they can also share the financial burden and reduce the pressure of their personal lives. They can also learn and grow with each other, and improve their psychological quality and ability to cope with life.
Of course, living together for a long time may not be as beautiful as originally imagined, and it is not excluded that there will be some conflicts of interest, some other contradictions, if one of the parties meets a suitable opposite sex to remarry, it may lead to an imbalance in the relationship. Therefore, women who choose this kind of "divorce partner" should also consider some problems and situations that will arise in advance, and try to avoid unpleasant situations.
In this era, people's thoughts and values are becoming more and more diversified, and the emergence of "divorce tie-up" is not only a challenge to the traditional concept of marriage, but also people's pursuit of a higher quality of life.
Everyone has their own choices and values about what kind of life to live. It is gratifying that the whole society is no longer prejudiced as it used to be, but on the basis of full respect for women, it looks at and respects everyone's choices and rights with an open and inclusive mind.
Of course, people also need to deeply reflect on the various problems of contemporary marriage relations, how to establish a healthier and more stable marriage relationship, and make society more harmonious.