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is about to go back to their hometown for the New Year, and many people who are in other places are basically returning to their hearts like arrows, eager to give birth to a pair of wings to return to their parents, reunite with their relatives, and breathe the familiar air of their hometown.
However, I have a young colleague who is a little sad these days, and he doesn't have the same happy mood as he wants to meet his parents during the Chinese New Year. Several people in the office knocked on the side together, and finally learned what was going on with the young colleague's sorrow during the lunch break and dinner.
It turned out that my colleague's family was in the countryside, and his wife got married last year, although they had bought a house in Chengdu, but the two were not from the same province, and they were both only children.
On the first Spring Festival after marriage, there was a small dispute between the two, whose house should they go to for the New Year? The man's house, or the woman's house? After discussing for a while, I finally came to a decision to go to the man's house, after all, as the saying goes, marry a chicken with a chicken and marry a dog with a dog, and go to the man's house in the first year.
Seeing that his daughter-in-law agreed to go to his house for the New Year, the young colleague felt quite happy for a moment. However, his daughter-in-law's words made him worry again. What is it? His daughter-in-law said that she was in her menstrual period during the Chinese New Year and did not want to sleep in their old house, but wanted to go out and live in a hotel, so she could stay at their house during the day. Also asked if they had any hotels in town.
Why? The daughter-in-law complained that the conditions of their house were relatively simple, the tap water was not like tap water, there were no bathing facilities, and there was no bathroom in the room. It's very inconvenient to live. In addition, it is a menstrual period, so I think it is convenient to be able to take a bath.
The young colleague said that this is all true.
It turned out that their family was still living in an old house built in his grandfather's time, and the concept at that time was that they could just have a house, without considering the convenience of life in the later period. In his father's generation, because they were farmers, they spent most of the year facing the loess with their backs to the sky, and they didn't even think about rebuilding residential buildings.
As for domestic water, the village built a pool decades ago, and the pipes were connected to every household, but no one managed it, and after a long time, the water was not tap water.
The bathroom was built dozens of meters away from the old house, and when I remembered the night, I had to put on my clothes and go out blindly in the dark. "It's really inconvenient in winter. Colleagues also approve of these living conditions.
His plan is to save some money with his daughter-in-law, and after two or three years, he will go back to demolish the family's old house and build a new house for his parents to live in, so that it will be convenient for them to go back. But before the plan was implemented, the daughter-in-law began to dislike the old house.
My colleagues also understand my daughter-in-law's distress. His daughter-in-law has been living in a big city since she was born, and she is used to life in a big city. But he thinks that there is no problem in overcoming it in a short period of time, why is his daughter-in-law so squeamish?
Also, isn't it a joke to stay at home during the day and stay in a hotel at night? The people in the village must have pointed at him behind his back and gossiped about it, and he couldn't endure hardship. Besides, their village is seven or eight kilometers away from the town, and there are no hotels in the town, and some are very simple hotels, and they are not as clean as their homes.
After listening to the complaints of our young colleagues, we felt quite sympathetic to him at first, but we didn't expect their hometown to be so hard. But later, after some discussion, everyone actually had the idea of supporting his daughter-in-law. And the people who support this part of the people are all grown up in Chengdu since childhood, and they must not want to have a difficult life when they encounter this situation.
We gave him an idea, no matter how good or bad it is said this year, it is the first Spring Festival after marriage, or go back for the New Year, and live in the old house, don't go to the hotel in the town, it will really be laughed at. But since the daughter-in-law doesn't want to live so much, there is no need to stay for seven or eight days, just three or five days.
In the future, if you want to celebrate the New Year at the man's house, there is no need to go back before building a new house. So that everyone has no opinion. If you are a mom and dad, you must have no problem in the city.
In fact, it is said that there are many cases like my colleague, and some young people choose to live in county hotels instead of staying in their hometowns after returning to their hometowns. It seems that I am used to a comfortable environment, and I am a little uncomfortable when I return to my hometown with difficult conditions.
But the gold nest and the silver nest are not as good as their own kennels, I think the meaning of going home is to reunite with your parents, if you pay attention to comfort, you don't need to go back, just take your parents to live in the city.
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