Let's tell you a few quietly.
It's okay to understand it, it's good to look good, and don't spread it.
1. Go find this "Psychopathology", read it well, and then meet particularly strange people and things, or people who make you feel particularly uncomfortable, put their characters with similar mental problems, and you will most likely instantly find that it is very suitable and everything makes sense (this does not mean that they are patients, but only that their emotional circuits and motivations in certain states are compatible with psychopaths).
2. If the first way is not smooth, it is recommended to watch the dog training **, as well as the documentary of dwarf orangutans, and substitute their behavior and motivation into domesticated dogs or dwarf orangutans, then it must be very thorough and obvious.
If the first two are done well, you can even be accurate in the words, deeds and decisions of certain people.
3. Take a look at the history of species evolution on the earth, understand the background and process of the 6 mass extinctions, and then replace this extinction cycle and development cycle into the real cycle, and think clearly about the logic of the rise and fall of enterprises and organizations, as well as the position of the ecological chain of people in it, which will make you quickly figure out the ecological changes of the cycle, and also touch the threshold of how to survive and make profits in the cycle.
The third article is done, remember to pay the daddy tax.
If you write too much, you won't read it.
That's all.
This chicken soup is poisonous and highly poisonous.
I'm sure you're all familiar with the following scenes:
As long as I get into college, everything will be fine;
As long as I am a civil servant, my life will enter a new height;
As long as I make a million, I will have peace of mind for the rest of my life;
As long as you complete the major events of getting married and buying a house, there will be a lot less pressure in the future;
used to watch Jin Yong's martial arts TV series, and it was the same, after dozens of episodes, the heroes and heroines finally retired one after another.
Guo Jing and Huang Rong lived in seclusion on Peach Blossom Island, Yuan Chengzhi and Wen Qingqing lived in seclusion overseas, and Ling Hu Chong and Ren Yingying also found a place to retreat without knowing where.
We are so envious.
Let us naively think that when we were children, their lives in the future will be no more fighting and killing, just the idyllic life of princesses and princes.
Our mindset will always tell us subconsciously:
There is a node in life, and when you cross this node, your life will be completely better in the future.
Then we worked hard for this node, and the head was cantilevered and the cone was pierced, and the courage was tasted.
Someone used to ask on Zhihu: Why is it not as happy as imagined after being admitted to the civil service.
The reason why you think that if you are admitted to the civil service, your life will be better.
It's because in your cognitive thinking in the past, going ashore is the whole of life.
The world over there is so beautiful that it's worth sacrificing all your current life, including time, energy, and everything you've given to fight for that one goal.
But the reality is not like this, being admitted to the civil service is just a small exam question in your long life.
How do you survive within the system? How do you build relationships with colleagues and leaders? How do I seek a career path? These are all things that you need to work on in the future, and it is ten times and a hundred times more difficult than your preparation for the exam;
That's on the good side;
It's not good, life in the system is not what you think it is at all; Why are others earning millions of dollars a year, but the wages in the system are so small; There is no sense of freedom and independence at all, and everything needs to be done under the instructions and orders of the leader;
There are many, many more, and I can't finish writing.
You may also be able to flee at any time.
The same applies to other scenarios in your life.
It is not said in the whole article, if you understand the truth, your life will be transparent from now on.
In fact, it's all the same, the person who came up with this topic just wants to tell you that as long as there is one truth, all your troubles can be solved.
Do you think there really is such a reason?
If so, then what are we doing all day long?
Publish a collection of dragon cards to share millions of cash