The sergeant's spouse is a heavy love, but it is also a heavy burden. In a world full of emotions and challenges, they are silently under all kinds of pressure, but they are often overlooked.
As we enter the new year, those who are still single, do you also feel the pressure of marriage hidden in the hustle and bustle of the festival? Alone, have you ever felt lost about your marriage?
My sister-in-law once told me about her cousin, who had a very difficult married life because of her status as a sergeant. Sister-in-law Sun's refusal seems to be an avoidance of a tragedy. But it also led me to think deeply about the life of a sergeant's spouse.
To better understand this topic, let's take a look at the challenges and dilemmas faced by non-commissioned spouses.
Difficulty in using mobile phones.
The officer's spouse may be able to connect with his or her significant other with ease, but the sergeant's spouse is not. They often face the problem of not being able to communicate in a timely manner, and they may not be able to reach each other even in important moments. Sister-in-law Sun mentioned the heart-wrenching experience when she gave birth, and the helplessness and anxiety were really heartbreaking.
The difficulty of following the army. 
Serving in the army has almost become a luxury for the spouses of sergeants. The threshold for the spouse of a sergeant to join the army is unusually high, if not impossible. In contrast, the spouse of an officer may be able to enjoy more privileges, but for the spouse of a non-commissioned officer, it is a distant dream.
The difficulty of reunion. 
The married life of the spouse of a sergeant is often one of less gathering and more separation. They want to be reunited with their significant other, but often have to rely on military vacations or visit the troops themselves. And wanting to live with the army for a long time is even more of a luxury, and you need to bear huge sacrifices and inconveniences.
The difficulty of future development.
The future of the spouse of a sergeant is often shrouded in a shadow of uncertainty. Life after retirement may be full of challenges and hardships, and in order to get the best placement job, you need to meet many conditions. In contrast, the future of officers seems to be more promising, and they have more choices and guarantees.
The life of a sergeant's spouse is like a sad song, full of bitterness and hardship. Their love and sacrifice are often overlooked, but they are so great and moving. In this special group, they pay silently, bear silently, for that unspeakable love, for that persistent perseverance.
Perhaps, we can take this opportunity to call for more attention and understanding. Perhaps, we can work together to create better living conditions and conditions for the spouses of non-commissioned officers. Let them no longer be lonely, no longer hesitate, and let their road of love no longer be bumpy, but a smooth road.
May their lives be happier in the future, and may our care warm their hearts.
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