The ideal type is a kind of existence full of fantasy, and in reality, it may be difficult for us to find the perfect answer. But in the love story of our father and our mother, their ideal type may be by their side, or they may accompany and protect each other.
Our father and mother have been married for 40 years, and their love story is not a romantic fairy tale, but more of a plain and precious vicissitudes. From acquaintance to acquaintance, they have also had different philosophies and concepts of life. Mom longs for love like poetry, and Dad values practicality more, but with the tempering of time, they gradually understand and respect each other's differences. Mom often said, "The ideal type does not have to be perfect, but to find happiness in the ordinary." This may be my mother's definition of the ideal type.
In the eyes of their parents, they see each other as ideal people, who can bring them comfort, can share the pressures and sorrows of life, and more importantly, the other person is the most trustworthy partner in their lives. My father always said, "When we are old, the greatest happiness is to grow old with you." In this way, no matter how simple it is, it also contains the deepest understanding of love, that is, we are willing to share the joys and sorrows with the person we love, and even if the years have passed, the flower of love will always bloom.
In the love story of our father and mother, the ideal type may not only refer to appearance or wealth, but a value that cannot be seen or touched. Their ideal type is such a prosaic and prodigal state of life, where their in-laws work together and hold up the whole sky for their children. Such an ideal type is the most real and lovely appearance in life, and it is also the most beautiful annotation of the love story performed by our parents in life.