Foolishness and filial piety are not advisable, children should have themselves, and should not sacrifice themselves!
What does foolishness mean? It means that children do not hesitate to sacrifice the interests of themselves, their spouses, and their children in order to please their parents. Oddly enough, this folly often happens in a dramatic way: when parents are not satisfied with one child's request, they give everything to the other. Senseless filial piety often leads to suffering.
The funny thing is that when you wake up, the original balance will be broken, for example, your parents, siblings will say that they are not filial! Filial piety should not be advocated. Foolish children are woeful!
They are all selfish and paranoid. I'm so stupid, my mother demands too much from me, I have to listen to her, obey her, obey her, always obey her, spoil her, accommodate her in everything, I will do whatever she tells me to do, right or wrong!
There is a stupid pity that is not only self-inflicted, but the mother is smart, she knows very well that her child is the easiest to control, so she does not hesitate to kidnap, in this case the child is either naïve, does not listen to the mother, or betrays the mother, if she cannot control the child, she will not be good to the child, because she knows that it will not work, and this is the worst thing.
An old woman said"My wife is a fool who has deceived his mother and sister all his life and ignored my children; I served him all my life, and after his parents died, he was very kind to his sisters and never worried about our family. My grandson is 12 years old. No matter what you say to him, he doesn't listen and argues with you.
We have to do our part for our parents, it's not their fault that they suffer, we just have to improve our little family and then help them, it's not a bad thing, especially when there are a lot of siblings.
When a child who already has a family of his or her own separates from his parents, the first thing that needs to be clarified is the legal relationship. Caring for the elderly and children is a complex issue that involves the values of parents and children, and there is no uniform standard. What do you think?