I have a male colleague who is Chinese New Year's Eve five years old today and resigned from the company. No house or car, his economic conditions are average, he loves to travel, and his income is basically used for tourism all year round, and he has been traveling poorly for many years. He had a girlfriend two years ago, younger than him.
Seven or eight years old, the girl's conditions are good, and he is not young anymore, so he wants to hurry up and get married, however, his girlfriend has not been in a hurry, every time he brings up the topic of marriage, her girlfriend always scolds him with "I don't even have a wedding house, how to get married", and he immediately has no confidence. He's also been scraping together money lately to get a down payment.
Some time ago, her girlfriend was on annual leave and suddenly asked him to travel to Xiamen, and the two of them arrived in Xiamen and had a good time. In the evening, when the two of them were wandering around the beach, his girlfriend suddenly took the initiative to ask him: When do you say we will get married?
My male colleague heard his girlfriend take the initiative to mention this topic, it was the first time, he looked confused, he said humbly: I told you a few times when you will get married, don't you always say that you want to have a house before you consider it, besides, your family wants another 200,000 bride price, I am preparing, it is estimated that there will be a few more months, at least the bride price is enough.
When his girlfriend heard him say, she laughed and said, I knew your bottom when I was good with you, and the house could be built immediately in a day or twoWe can rent a house first, as for the bride price, that's just what my parents want, I don't care myself, besides, you don't have so much, I have, the bride price is to fool my parents, I can transfer mine to you, let's get the marriage certificate first after this trip, and then you go home to discuss with your parents, before the Spring Festival, our family proposed, let's hurry up and tie the knot, you are not small, tomorrow is the year of the birth again.
My colleague started to think that his girlfriend was playing with him, but he didn't expect that the next morning, his mobile phone message: received a transfer of 150,000 yuan, which his girlfriend transferred to him.
It seems that his girlfriend is not joking, and this time, it completely messed up my colleague.
In the past few days, my colleague still hasn't come to his senses, her girlfriend has been more concerned about the house before, and now she suddenly said that renting a house is okay, and actually transferred money to him to pay the bride price, what kind of operation is this, I feel that I have no bottom in my heart, he told me that he has been with his girlfriend for two years, she knows some, this is not her way of doing things, her girlfriend will not have any secrets to hide from him, before I urged her to get married several times, she is not in a hurry, now I don't say, but she suddenly came to bring it up, the house doesn't care, the bride price money is more than half of their own, I have no bottom in my heart, but a little worried。
I said, either you hurry up and figure it out, or don't think about it, do you think so much useful?Maybe people feel sorry for you, they really think it's not easy for you, so they take the initiative to get married, unless you don't want to get married, the opportunity comes and hurry up to seize the opportunity, you are in your thirties, what are you afraid of?Unless you have a hand for yourself.
After hearing this, he sighed and said, just like me, can I still keep a hand for myself?
This week, my colleague took three days off and went back to his hometown with his girlfriend, saying that he had a major life event to do, and he probably got a certificate.