Introduction: My name is Wang Li, 54 years old this year, retired from the company, pension of 3,000 yuan, my husband passed away due to illness 5 years ago.
Both of us work in a company, the salary is not high, we don't have much savings, and our family is not well-off.
The narration from Wang Li is sincere and warm.
I have a son and a daughter, my son is named Li Li, who is 29 years old this year and has been married for 3 years; The daughter-in-law's name is Han Ping, 28 years old this year, and her grandson is 3 years old this year and has just started kindergarten.
The daughter's name is Li Wan, 27 years old this year, married for 2 years, and her grandson has just turned 1 year old.
The son and daughter-in-law are both teachers, teaching in the same school, the combined salary of the two is just over 10,000 yuan, and they bought a wedding house with a mortgage in the city, and the two repay the mortgage of 4,000 yuan per month.
I also don't have any savings, I worked hard with my husband to save more than 300,000 yuan in those years, and half of it was spent because of my husband's illness, and I gave the remaining half to my son and daughter-in-law to help them buy a house, although it is not much, but my daughter-in-law is also very grateful.
My daughter-in-law and son really love each other, she knows that our family situation is not rich, and she does not care, she told me at that time that after marriage, as long as two people work together and work together, there will be a house and bread.
The daughter-in-law is not too poor to love the rich at all, and it is difficult to find a good girl in this era, so I like this daughter-in-law very much.
And my daughter Li Wan and daughter-in-law's personalities are completely different, she is really poor and loves rich in terms of finding a partner, she just wants to find a rich family, she doesn't even look at the poor, she quickly fell into a "golden beetle son-in-law" with her appearance and education, the other party is a rich second generation, and the two of them soon got married.
After my daughter got married, she lived a life of fine clothes and food, driving a luxury car, carrying a brand-name bag, and sometimes she was afraid that I would lose her face, so she also bought me a brand-name bag, I didn't understand it, and I didn't carry it much, so I gave it to my daughter-in-law.
My daughter knew that I gave the bag to her sister-in-law, and she was a little reluctant, saying that I didn't know how to enjoy happiness and enjoy life.
The daughter has been squeamish since she was a child, she doesn't want to do any housework, the work she does is her brother's, and the work she enjoys is hers, and her husband has been very fond of her since she was a child, so she has developed this character.
Although she is my daughter, she can't accept her views when I say them, and she always refutes me, and I don't want to say anything about her after a long time, so I think just let it be, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren.
My daughter fell in love in college, and it was useless for me to object, she directly told me that she had found a rich second generation, and I said that the rich second generation is too big for our poor family, the gap between the two families is too big, can you live a good life? Won't you be disliked?
My daughter scoffed at what I said, she said that she married into a wealthy family with her own ability and beauty, not that she is useless, she can marry you in the past must have her strengths, and has been recognized by the other party's family, why do we have to be so inferior, pay attention to the right family?
Anyway, no matter what I say, my daughter can't listen to it, she has her own strange opinions, and I no longer object to her marriage, and I also have a natural attitude.
But I didn't expect my daughter to get married, judging from the past two years, she has a relatively good life, no matter what, she can handle the family relationship between her and her in-laws, which I am relieved of.
The daughter has been pampered and proud since she was a child, and she can't do any housework, so she doesn't serve people much. The next thing I did was sick, and I saw this fact even more clearly, and it was impossible to expect my daughter to serve me when I was old.
My daughter-in-law took good care of me, and I am very grateful to her. I stayed in the hospital for more than half a month, and the other patients in the hospital thought that my daughter-in-law was my daughter and my daughter was my daughter-in-law.
Because during my hospitalization, my daughter usually came to buy something, put down some money, and then left after saying a few words, while my daughter-in-law came to accompany me after work, massaged me, accompanied me to the toilet, and cooked delicious meals for me in different ways.
I like my daughter-in-law from the bottom of my heart, I like her character and simplicity, and I treat me as her dearest.
In the past few years of watching the children at my daughter-in-law's house, my daughter-in-law and I have been like mother and daughter, there is no contradiction, and our life is very happy. Although my pension is not high, I try to save as much as possible, and I can save 20,000 yuan in a year.
When it came to the Chinese New Year, my daughter-in-law wanted to buy me clothes, I didn't want it, I said that my daughter had bought it for me, and then I gave the money I saved to my daughter-in-law and asked her to buy some high-grade clothes, but my daughter-in-law refused.
The daughter-in-law said that she doesn't pay attention to famous brands when she wears clothes, as long as she is suitable and decent, it doesn't matter to her whether she is high or not. So I changed my plan to send it to my grandson in the form of a red envelope so that she could accept it.
For me, my daughter's family is very rich, and no matter how much money I give, she looks down on her, so when I give out red envelopes, I give my grandson a red envelope of 10,000 yuan, and a red envelope of 1,000 yuan to my grandson.
I gave my grandson this 10,000 yuan red envelope, which also expressed my gratitude to my daughter-in-law for serving me when I was sick, and nothing else was interesting.
But the daughter-in-law saw it but was unwilling, she directly returned me a red envelope of 9,000 yuan, she said: Don't let my sister see that it is unfair, although she is very rich, but her heart will also be uncomfortable.
As a result, the daughter-in-law said that she was right, and after the daughter checked the red envelopes of the two children, she also said: This is about the same, your grandma is not partial.
I was speechless, I am even more grateful to my daughter-in-law, and I feel very happy because I have such a sensible daughter-in-law.
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Conclusion:Love is sometimes very simple, and kindness from the heart is often the purest and can touch people's souls. Whether there is a blood relationship or not, as long as you can sincerely love each other, you will get corresponding feedback.