"Have you ever won? Even if it's just once”
This is a very resonant line from the recent popular movie "Hot and Hot".
"Win" here does not refer to success, does not refer to gaining the upper hand in the competition with others, but about surpassing oneself, finding oneself and making progress in the process of "setting challenges and seeking breakthroughs".
Is there a change that makes you proud? Is there a transcendence that allows you to unlock a different self? How to become a better version of yourself, maybe you can work on these three aspects.
The trough is the time of departure
When no one really believes in you, inspires you, sees you, and when you feel like you're on the verge of giving up, take the initiative to provide yourself with confidence and energy.
Having endured enough disappointment and disappointment, hitting the bottom and then reaching the bottom** often inspires more strength to rebuild oneself.
There is a term called "rolling stones without moss", which means that there is no moss on the rolling stones.
Life is the same, as long as you have the courage to keep moving forward, you will not always stop where you are.
I decided to start over, and I have already completed the hardest part, starting from the trough, and every step is an upward path.
Lock on to the target, don't stick to it
We are in an impetuous era, and there are too many people who ignore the fundamentals in pursuit of profits; Too many people expect to get rich overnight rather than do one thing well.
Because of this, in recent years, people have paid more and more attention to the "craftsman spirit".
The so-called "craftsman spirit" is to focus on work, identify a goal, and go all out.
Once you have identified your goal, you need a clear and definite path to avoid external disturbances as much as possible and narrow your attention to the only belief in achieving your goal.
Cicero said, "No matter how fragile a man is, if he pours all his energies into a single purpose, he will be able to accomplish it." ”
When you do one thing with one heart and have no distractions, you can continue to exert your strength and create miracles.
It is important to work for a long time to achieve something
The cicadas chirp for a summer, but they have been dormant for several seasons; It was a flash in the pan, but it waited for the whole day. All the harvest is the result of silent hard work.
Whether it's reading, writing, running, or any other ability that you want to improve, it takes a lot of patience.
Because we need to do a lot of repetitive work without feedback, endure tedious, boring, and wandering back and forth on the long road of loneliness.
The meaning of persistence is to resist these great resistances, to reserve qualitative changes, and to give time to change.
Really powerful people know the truth of accumulation, working silently in the corners that others can't see, and brewing in the long wait without hope.
Only when you have enough strength can you firmly grasp the opportunity to shine.
You have to believe that every effort in the present is hammering the rock of the future and shaping it into what you aspire to be.