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Nowadays, the "advocacy" of cosmetics by some businesses has made many women "very useful";
However, there are also some women who are not interested in fashion, dressing, and grooming;
Although they are frugal and simple, they live a relaxed and comfortable life. I don't seem to mind what kind of eyes people are;
In fact, the more women who don't like makeup and dress up, the easier it is to live well, for the following three reasons.
Milan Kundera said
"Giving oneself to the eyes of others is the source of insecurity and doubt. ”A person's true maturity is to form his own stable cognition and correct values, know what his strengths and weaknesses are, so as to have self-confidence;
A woman who lives in the eyes of others everywhere can't face her true self, and she cares about the evaluation of others;
When people say that she is not beautiful and outstanding, their hearts will be shaken, and then they will take the initiative to accept the aesthetics and values instilled by others, consume frequently, and dress themselves up in a fancy way, for fear that others will see the flaws and deficiencies in their appearance;
On the other hand, those women who don't wear makeup and don't like to dress up often have a sense of security in their hearts and will not doubt themselves because of a little wind and grass in the outside world;
Because this kind of woman does not need the recognition and appreciation of others, they know their own value, can evaluate themselves objectively, and do not care about other people's gossip.
This self-confidence and calmness will make them more energetic and energetic to improve themselves, instead of having to please others and seek perfection.
Many women originally liked to wear makeup and dress up, however, they found that the enthusiasm they paid did not make them more beautiful and confident, but more tired and haggard;
Many times, they question some of the deformed aesthetics of this society, and they believe that those that do not meet their own pursuits are contrary to their own aesthetics.
They decided not to wear makeup anymore, not to give up their love for beauty, but to resist the distorted aesthetics of reality and hope to create their own unique style;
Some girls are obviously pure, so rouge and vulgar powder will actually cover their natural beauty, and no makeup is more suitable for them, which can better highlight their unique temperament and charm;
There are also some girls who are themselves little beauties, but after makeup, they will be invisible to all beings, so that they are indistinguishable from many girls who wear makeup;
Moreover, makeup is originally a time consumption and mental burden for some women;
As a result, they simply stopped wearing makeup, but instead shaped their elegant posture, cultivated their healthy and confident psychology, and no longer catered to secular aesthetics.
Some people say: A woman who doesn't wear makeup is really sassy;
After all, the thick layers of cosmetics are applied to the face, and you don't dare to laugh easily, let alone cry easily, because when you cry, you will lose your makeup, and the original elaborate dress will be ruined;
However, you don't have to worry about this without makeup;
Isn't it true that people live for a lifetime just to be comfortable and unrestrained?
So, instead of spending money, spending time, dressing yourself carefully, and being constrained by these, it is better to do what you want, and how to be comfortable.
This kind of woman knows that true freedom and freedom are not the shackles she puts on herself, nor the appreciation and liking of others, nor the nonsense of businessmen, but her own decision.
They don't have to wear makeup and dress up like the trend, as long as they are comfortable and comfortable.
It is this trait that makes them happy and happy.
In fact, dressing up is all about personal needs and preferences, and outsiders have no right to interfere;
The more women who don't like makeup, the more they can often focus on what they want to do, and no matter how bad they are, they are fearless about other people's opinions, just want to be clean and generous on the outside, and do not need redundant decorations.
Such women often have their own unique charm and can better control their lives.
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