Niu Dali wakes up quickly, Yao Yuling don t be entangled, the concept of marriage and love in the 80

Mondo Culture Updated on 2024-02-19

In "South to North", as the supporting role story line, Niu Dali and Yao Yuling, the emotional line between them is very vivid, even witty and humorous, but after this layer of laughter, it is actually a very realistic question of young people's view of marriage and love.

Niu Dali and Yao Yuling are colleagues, on the green train, Yao Yuling is a broadcaster, Niu Dali is a boiler worker working at a locomotive, and of course, the future career development route is to be a train driver.

Niu Dali is not a young man in the whole unit, so Yao Yuling doesn't look down on Niu Dali, she doesn't like harlequins, she doesn't like funny men, if she really loves vanity completely, she probably won't choose Wang Xin as the object, she still likes to be handsome, and the choice of economic conditions is ranked behind the factor of people.

Yao Yuling and Wang Xin's breakup is completely a realistic performance, just after the relationship was determined, Wang Xin was suspended, and he may be punished, before the results were out, Yao Yuling and her mother decided to make a choice and break up with Wang Xin.

Niu Dali continued to pursue Yao Yuling, spared no effort, tried his best, and Yao Yuling never let go.

It wasn't until Niu Dali replaced Lao Wu and became the deputy driver that he invited Yao Yuling to go down to the restaurant, served a large table of good dishes, confessed to Yao Yuling, and hoped to officially start with Yao Yuling, and finally pried Yao Yuling's mouth open, and this matter was done.

But after getting along for a while, the contradictions between them become more and more obvious.

Until Yao Yuling and Jia Jinlong met, the eyes of the two of them were between the electric light, as if they had found each other's "dishes", or prey, a little humorous.

Yao Yuling and her boyfriend said that they were going to Hacheng to play for a few days and go to find classmates, but in fact, they were going to find Jia Jinlong.

There is a conversation between Niu Dali and Yao Yuling, Niu Dali asked Yao Yuling not to always think about making clothes, to save some money, and to get by, but Yao Yuling thinks that men who can only make people save money are incapable and don't want to make more money themselves, but let women save money.

From this incident, in fact, it can be seen that there are fundamentally three different views between them, and it is fruitless to make do with them, it is better to recognize the reality and find a better partner for each.

Yao Yuling and Niu Dali's previous relationship did not seem sweet, because Yao Yuling actually did not have a heart, did not feel settled, and did not get along with Niu Dali as a marriage partner, Niu Dali's cheesiness and Yao Yuling's reality do not match.

In the 80s, men and women were also eating and drinking, and they may want to have a stable job iron rice bowl, after all, at that time, it was still a unit to divide the house, receive a salary, and the railway treatment was not bad, and two dual workers seemed to be okay.

Niu Dali is not bad, Cai Xiaonian is similar to him, but Cai Xiaonian's father is a train driver, it seems that the family conditions are better than Niu Dali, but it is not difficult to find a good girl with Niu Dali, but what he likes is Yao Yuling, who is like a peacock.

Yao Yuling is young and beautiful, she wants to find someone who can get her hands on it, she wants to live a good life, a rich life, an easy life, she likes to make new clothes, in order to maintain her figure, she is also very swaggering when she walks around in the yard, is there anything wrong with such a girl? Not to mention, she is very realistic, but she is also very direct and simple, but Niu Dali can't meet her requirements.

Yao Yuling can go to Hacheng to find Jia Jinlong at this time, which has explained a lot of problems, Niu Dali really needs to wake up, if Yao Yuling doesn't like Niu Dali, don't be entangled, just go find the life she wants.

Some of the feelings in "South to North" are subtle, some are direct, but in fact, they are emotional stories between all kinds of people.

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