I have walked many roads, crossed bridges in many places, seen clouds many times, drank many kinds of wine, but I have loved only one man who is at the best age. - Shen Congwen".
There is a wall in everyone's heart, a wall of the heart that maintains their inner order, prevents their most precious and fragile treasures from being easily taken away, or protects their most unbearable and shameless weaknesses from being discovered.
In a relationship, if a woman is willing to open up to you and share her deep secret thoughts with you, it means that you have gained her trust.
Her willingness to hand over her truest self to stand your test means that if you can accept her truest side and then talk to her, then she will most likely be willing to go on with you for the rest of your life.
part01
Childhood stories. Some people have a very happy childhood, full of laughter, and some people have a devastated childhood, full of forbearance and hardship.
A person's childhood experience will greatly affect her personal character, and sharing her childhood story with you is to let you understand more intuitively why she is the way she is now, and I hope you can be more understanding and tolerant of her.
Childhood experiences will affect her current behavior and decision-making, and after you know her childhood experiences, you may be able to better understand the logic of her thinking and the way she behaves in person.
After knowing her childhood experience, you may exclaim: no wonder you were like this before.
part02
Family privacy. If she starts to be willing to share things about her home with you, such as:
Food, clothing, housing and transportation at home, such as car, house, daily expenses, etc.
Parents are short, such as conflicts between family members, or some small happiness in the family.
The relationship between family members and themselves, such as which member they have the best relationship with, which family members they fear the most, etc.
If she can naturally share with you what is happening at home in real time, it means that she is already close to you, and she intends to let you know more about his family so that it can be easier to integrate into her family in the future.
So if she is willing to share the bits and pieces of the family with you, don't feel impatient, it is all her trust in you.
part03
Personal weaknesses. On the outside, we are all accustomed to playing to our strengths and avoiding our weaknesses, and we are unwilling to let others see our weaknesses.
Although some weaknesses are obvious and can be seen at a glance by others, we will not take the initiative to talk about our weaknesses unless there are special circumstances.
She is willing to take the initiative to share her weaknesses with you, which is equivalent to showing you her most lethal parts unreservedly.
Sharing your weaknesses with you, on the one hand, I hope you don't mind her weaknesses, I hope you can accept her shortcomings, and on the other hand, I hope I can get your encouragement and recognition.
So, if she is willing to share her weaknesses with you, please don't subconsciously pour cold water, her weaknesses are where she is most vulnerable, please be sure to protect them well.
A woman's willingness to be honest with you about sharing her "privacy" is a sign of trust in you and an expectation of you. Not only does she expect you to get to know her better, but she also expects you to accept her better, and she expects you to have a longer future.
Trust can't be negative, the future can't be bullied, please be sure to take good care of her.
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