As an ordinary person, I couldn't be more ordinary, and I was very eager to socialize for a while, especially when I was stunned by chicken soup, and I felt that I could become famous immediately. It wasn't until I was poured cold water by reality that I woke up and understood the ten cruel truths of upward socialization:
1. Ordinary people need to put in a huge effort and price if they want to socialize upward, but the final success may not necessarily be rewarded accordingly.
2. Upward socialization requires a certain amount of capital and ability, and ordinary people often lack these conditions, so it is difficult to establish contact with excellent people.
3. If ordinary people want to socialize, they often need to use some means and skills, and these means and skills are not something that everyone can master.
4. Excellent people often have their own social circles and habits, while it is difficult for ordinary people to integrate into them, and it is difficult to get the recognition and trust of others.
5. It takes a lot of time and energy to socialize upwards, while ordinary people often have more life pressure and work burden, and it is difficult to spare enough time and energy to invest.
6. Ordinary people often need to cross certain social classes and gaps if they want to socialize upward, but this leap requires great costs and risks.
7. Excellent people often have their own goals and pursuits, while ordinary people's goals and pursuits are often different from them, so it is difficult to find common topics and entry points for communication.
8. Upward socialization requires a certain amount of self-confidence and psychological qualities, while ordinary people often lack these qualities and are easily hit and frustrated in the process of trying.
9. Ordinary people who want to socialize upwards often need to rely on some opportunities and resources, and these opportunities and resources are not available to everyone.
10. Excellent people often have their own connections and networks, and it is difficult for ordinary people to establish such networks and networks, so it is difficult to establish contacts and interactions with excellent people.
For those who want to have the same experience or perception as me, we should first complete Vipassana, improve ourselves, strengthen ourselves, and let ourselves complete iteration and blooming, which is the real royal way.