"In the face of shock, I would like to ask: How much of a happy time did you spend during the exam? "This is the most long Weibo today, and the major platforms on the Internet have **, and many netizens have a lot of feelings. It seems to be an ordinary exam report card, but behind it is a family's confusion and anxiety.
Yang Wei was once a legend of the Chinese gymnastics team, the winner of the decathlon championship, and a legend in the history of Chinese sports. He has three children, the eldest son, Yang Yangyang, who is 14 years old and is attending an international school in junior high school, with high tuition fees; The twin daughters are only in primary school this year, but they are also attending top schools. In order to ensure the quality of their children's learning, Mr. and Mrs. Yang Wei spent a lot of money and time to hire tutors throughout the year, and accompanied the children with homework every night.
However, all these efforts could not be exchanged for good results at the end of the term, which hit Yang Wei's family hard. Parents always expect their children to perform well, and excellent academic performance is an honor for a family, and it is also a kind of expectation and guarantee for parents for their children's future. The children, on the other hand, are under tremendous pressure, feeling the expectations of their parents and their high hopes for their future.
For children, the competitive school environment and heavy academic tasks have become their daily routine. They dare not make any mistakes, lest they live up to their parents' expectations and commitments. This kind of psychological pressure caused by the pursuit of grades has become a common problem among contemporary teenagers. They lose a lot of the happy and relaxing time they should have and put all their energy into studying.
Parental expectations and children's pressures are an interacting process. Parents' expectations are too high, and the pressure on children increases. On the contrary, if parents can approach their children's learning in a tolerant and understanding manner, giving them more support and encouragement, children will also feel relaxed and confident. Therefore, we need to reflect and think about how to balance children's physical and mental development and happy growth while pursuing grades.
Cultivating children in an all-round way is the expectation of every parent. We've tried our best, but the results still don't seem to be as good as we could see. "Yang Wei's voice was unusually heavy, and in the face of the unsatisfactory figures on the report card, he lamented the inadequacy of education and his own inadequacy.
Education is a complex and arduous task, not only for the imparting of knowledge and the evaluation of achievements, but also for the cultivation of people and the shaping of personality. However, today's education focuses on test-oriented education, emphasizing scores and promotion rates, while ignoring the individual differences of students and the cultivation of comprehensive qualities. This single evaluation system limits children's development space and ignores their interests and potential.
In addition to the lack of education, family education is also an important factor affecting children's growth. The family is the earliest place for children to learn, and it is also the place where values and habits are formed. However, modern families are generally busy, and parents are so busy that they are unable to give their children enough attention and guidance with their time and energy into their work. Many parents claim to attach importance to education, but in practice, they often ignore the moral education of their children and only focus on academic performance.
Children grow up in such an environment, and their pursuit of grades and parents' expectations are more out of external pressure than inner pursuit and self-fulfillment. In such an education system, children lack interest in learning and vision for the future, and only passively accept and cope, losing the joy of active learning and exploration.
Therefore, we need to guide the growth of children with a positive educational attitude and the right educational methods. Education is not only about imparting knowledge to children, but also about imparting them the right values and outlook on life. Parents should focus on nurturing their children's interests and hobbies, stimulating their intellectual curiosity and creativity, and enabling them to actively participate and learn. Only in such an educational environment can children truly develop their own strengths and achieve full personal development.
Yang Wei's face is full of concern and contradictions, he knows that it is not advisable to rush to achieve results, but at the same time he is not willing to give up his care and guidance for the children.
Mr. and Mrs. Yang Wei would find time to accompany their children to do homework and study every night, and in order to allow the children to study with peace of mind, they put down their work and rest countless times. However, despite all the efforts they have put in, the children's results are still not as good as they should be.
Disappointment and frustration made Yang Wei and his wife feel exhausted. They have had countless discussions and analyses about whether the children's learning methods are wrong or whether their education methods need to be improved. They don't want their children to feel their helplessness and jealousy, but they can't hide the anxiety in their hearts.
In the midst of anxiety and frustration, Yang Wei took the children out for a walk. He hopes to be able to relieve the children's stress in a relaxed way and transform their anxiety and painful emotions about grades. However, despite his best efforts to provide a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere, the children were still unable to fully unleash themselves.
It is often said that home is a child's harbor, and in this harbor, parents are the most solid backing and support for children. However, in modern society, many families spend less and less time with each other, and parents are unable to give their children enough attention and companionship. The lack of family education and the lack of emotion make many children feel lonely and helpless.
On this issue, Yang Wei is a role model worthy of our praise. Although he also felt great pressure and frustration, he never gave up on his love and companionship for his children. In his own way, he tries to create a relaxed and enjoyable learning environment for the children, giving them support and encouragement at critical moments.
Through communication and exchanges with the children, Yang Wei learned about the children's confusion and troubles. He understands that grades are important, but more important is to develop children's self-confidence and independent thinking skills. He told the children that learning is not only about pursuing good grades, but also about being able to better develop and realize their dreams in the future.
Tomorrow is more important than grades. "This is a sentence that Yang Wei said to the children, and it is also a summary and reflection of his life process.
Disappointment and frustration made Yang Wei realize the importance and limitation of achievements. He understands that the pursuit of high grades is not the only goal, but more important is to cultivate children's intrinsic motivation and future planning. Only when there is a clear goal and pursuit in the heart, can children truly experience the joy and sense of accomplishment of learning.
Therefore, Yang Wei began to guide the children to think about their future plans and career development. He encourages children to diversify their interests and hobbies to develop their strengths and potentials. He told them that only by finding something they are passionate about and putting into it can they achieve their dreams and success.
Yang Wei understands that learning should not only be based on scores, but more importantly, cultivate children's comprehensive quality and creativity. He encouraged the children to participate in various cultural and sports activities to cultivate their comprehensive ability and teamwork spirit. He told the children that only through diversified learning and practice can they achieve more comprehensive growth and development.
Yang Wei understands that in order to cultivate children's intrinsic motivation and future planning, parents need to give them the space and time to develop freely. He encouraged the children to think more, try more, and not be bound by grades. He told the children that only through trial and failure can they find their true interests and passions.
Through Yang Wei's story, we can see the important role of parents in their children's growth. Parents need to guide their children's learning with the right educational attitude and methods, and pay attention to their physical and mental development and happy growth. It is only with the joint support of families and schools that we can raise the next generation that is healthy, happy, and has dreams.