We all live in a bond of connection. In these bonds, there are family affection, friendship, love, and other inextricable connections. They tug at our emotions and tug at our hearts.
For a long time, these associations have brought anxiety and pain to our hearts, but also brought sweetness and warmth.
There is always a delicate balance between us and others. Sometimes we take the initiative to connect, and sometimes we take the lead in connection. When we take more than we build, we feel overwhelmed.
This kind of anxiety and depression often comes from the pressure of interpersonal relationships. Our struggles with friends, family, and colleagues are exhausting.
We play a certain "role" in it, putting on a social "mask". Over time, the mask fits well, the character gradually blends into the blood, and we forget our original appearance.
When all the time and energy is spent on maintaining these relationships, we feel tired day by day.
Some people choose to leave the crowd for a while, hoping to re-examine their relationship with the world. They are the "** people" in the relationship bond and want to protect their hearts with silence.
1。Stay away from the hustle and bustle of the "relationship ** person".
In the hustle and bustle of the city, we are used to various relationships and role switching. As employees, we are busy from morning to night;
As friends, we socialize and drink to our heart's content; As a family, we take care of every detail. Identities make us lose ourselves, and we are no longer sure who it is.
Relationship ** people "long to get away from this hustle and bustle." They don't want to shape themselves for gatherings, and they don't want to put their hearts in workplace relationships.
In the presence of acquaintances, they are silent; In front of strangers, there are even fewer words to almost no words. They are used to eating and watching movies alone without thinking about other people's preferences.
They yearn to find themselves in serenity.
However, this silence may be seen as indifferent in the eyes of others. We often worry about whether our friends are in trouble and need help.
But our kindness may make them feel more stressed, and they need time for the outside world to understand their inner struggles.
2。Finding the true nature of life
We came to this world with a pure heart. We are curious about every plant and tree in the world, and look at others with innocent and kind eyes. However, time has marked us, and we are no longer who we used to be.
We put on name tags, straighten our ties, and learn how to cope with all kinds of occasions. Trying to put your best foot forward with others.
Over time, we forget our sincerity and lose ourselves. We live in hypocrisy, and we can't tell the difference between what is on the outside and what is inside.
Life is not only about what is in front of you, but also about poetry and distance. People yearn to return to the true nature of life, to find inner peace outside the hustle and bustle.
Some people choose to return to the basics, return to their hometown and fields, and live a life of almost seclusion.
Some people choose to write quietly and find themselves in the sea of language.
Some people choose to roam the world and find spiritual rest in a foreign land.
They find hope in the depths of still water, where they find life.
3。Watch for the little blessings in life
At first, I thought happiness was the highest goal, but later I realized that what really matters is peace of mind. ”
Calm is what a person wants after all the hustle and bustle, joys and sorrows. When we experience the noise of the outside world and understand the vicissitudes of the world, we learn to cherish the small blessings in life.
the time when a person tastes tea alone; An evening of quiet reading alone; A person does not need words to accompany him.
We learn to be grateful in simplicity and live in the ordinary.
There is no need for great achievements and successes, just a place of tranquility and purity. We guard the bits and pieces of our lives and live our own lives.
In the chaotic world, wisdom is needed to penetrate the hustle and bustle and find the essence of life. When we came, we will return to the beginning.
After experiencing the external noise, the heart can be precipitated. In the depths of still water, we spend meaningful time bit by bit.
As long as there is a pure land in the depths of our hearts, we can reap the benefits of sobriety and kindness.
No matter what the circumstances, you must remember to keep your own heart, keep your life as it is, go through all kinds of things, and return to peace.
May you and I find inner peace and ease, and light up the light of life in the hustle and bustle of the world.