"People are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden", this sentence and Guiguzi said that "a soft-hearted person must be an unblessed person" is very consistent in a certain direction, all of which mean that if this person is excessively soft-hearted, it is a very bad thing, of course, we cannot deny that kindness and soft-heartedness is a very valuable quality in the world.
1. Correct thinking.
Have you ever scolded Guiguzi? If you have scolded, I am afraid that you are really a white and flawless lotus, but don't be too happy, Sima Guang thinks that there is virtue but no talent, at most he is a gentleman, it sounds good, but he is indeed virtuous and talentless.
In fact, Guiguzi is not against benevolence and righteousness, but he just thinks that a person must not only have benevolence and morality, but also know how to scheming, for example, he said: not only loyalty, faith, benevolence, righteousness, but righteousness.
2. Develop self-confidence.
No matter what position and state you are in, the first thing is to learn to be confident, a confident person, can continue to make yourself full. In the face of other people's instructions and heavy responsibilities, you will not become timid and make others question. We can find that many reasons why it is difficult to get opportunities is nothing more than because of my own lack of self-confidence, so it is difficult for people to take on big things, so it is just difficult for people to trust and trust him.
3. The speaker also speaks; Those who say it are also capitalized.
The so-called "lobbyist" is the one who lobbied the other side; Since you want to lobby the other side, you have to say things that are beneficial to the other side, and you have to use rhetoric to embellish your diction to impress the other side. Can you imagine how a group of Confucianists reacted when they saw this sentence? Isn't this just blatantly teaching people to deceive with words? In addition to this sentence, there are many similar sentences in the book.
4. Reaction second
When debating or lobbying, use symbolic things to illustrate or cite relevant events to inspire others. In fact, it is to conduct repeated investigation and observation of the lobbying object, so as to get close to the truth and achieve the goal.
Getting fish lies in casting bait, and getting words lies in asking questions; The bait will be fished, and the question will be answered, so it is "fishing language".
What I am talking about today is only a rarity of Guiguzi's wisdom, and his life's wisdom and scheming are written in the book, and this book is "Guiguzi".
In this complex social system, we have to cultivate our ability to behave in the world, Guiguzi teaches us to be strict with ourselves, self-cultivation, leniency to others, and to repay the society is to do good!
Now there are many people who learn Guiguzi, because Guiguzi's strategy is different from Zhuge Liang, his strategy can be applied to the study and life of ordinary people, and life will go to the next level if you learn it!
After reading "Guiguzi", I found that there are many ways to live in the world, and there are many techniques and strategies for accumulating good luck. The old gentleman of Guigu has already made it clear!
It is worth mentioning that "Guiguzi" embraces all rivers, gathers the ideological essence of the Zongheng family, the soldier, the Taoist, the immortal family, etc., not only has an analysis and guide for each article, but also attaches representative cases of ancient and modern China and foreign countries, covering management, shopping malls, workplaces, life and other fields, showing the wisdom and strategy of Guiguzi with wonderful stories.
In fact, after watching "Guiguzi", many people will be surprised to find that the usual communication skills and "unspoken rules" mentioned by Mr. "Guiguzi" thousands of years ago have been very clear. If you reach middle age and are still confused and worried about your livelihood, then Guiguzi is really a book you must read.
This set of books "Guiguzi" has a total of 5 volumes, each of which is a wisdom book that is of great help to the workplace and life, and it can be said that as long as you take out one of them, it is a book that will benefit you for a lifetime.
After reading "Guiguzi", I realized that if you meet a pig, don't talk about ideals with him, because it only knows feed.
After reading "The Parchment Scroll", I realized that when the heart is big, the matter is small. When the heart is relieved, the annoyance is gone.
After reading "Wolf Road", I realized that people who are not used to seeing it, don't care, smiling is the best counterattack.
After reading "Murphy's Law", I realized that nothing is as simple as it seems on the surface, and the more you are afraid of something, the more something will happen.
After reading "The Weakness of Human Nature", I realized that there are two things in the world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the sun and the other is the human heart.
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