Text: Zhang Chenxi.
Life is full of variety, each with its own tiredness.
Along the way, we have become accustomed to doing everything ourselves, and we don't bother others easily.
Even if he was exhausted, he still persevered desperately, gritting his teeth and holding on.
Accustomed to proving their worth with busyness and exhaustion.
Because of the fear of being seen as weak by others, the fear of falling on the road of life.
So, we chose to be strong and chose to keep sprinting forward.
I am accustomed to carrying all the hardships alone, digesting all the pain alone, not shouting pain casually, hiding my emotions, and burying my heart.
No matter when, what is presented in front of others is a look of invincibility.
Gradually, others have the illusion of certainty that we are incomparably strong, that we will not be hurt, and we do not need care and companionship.
Only we know how painful the emotions are in the dead of night.
If you can rely on it, who wants to be strong?
Who doesn't want someone to understand, someone to hurt, someone to relieve their sorrows?
Who doesn't want to be a simple and ignorant person forever?
A person will be tired if he is strong for a long time, and his heart will hurt after being strong for a long time.
No one is born brave and strong, and who is not forced by life to grow up?
Many times, it's not that we don't show weakness, but we don't meet the person who sees through our own stubbornness, so we have to pretend to be strong.
Everyone will have times when they can't hold it or carry it, don't always pretend and don't be too strong.
You don't have to be strong all the time, and you don't have to be perfect in everything.
In moments of exhaustion, we should learn to let go of those unnecessary insistences and give ourselves a little breathing space.
This is not a compromise with life, but a respect for life.
We are all ordinary people, there are always some things that we can't do, there are always some emotions that we can't restrain ourselves, learn to face our true selves calmly.
People live for a lifetime, and they must be able to afford to put it down.
If you can't do it, you don't have to be too reluctant; What you can't carry, you don't have to stiffen your shoulders.
When appropriate, slow down, listen to your inner voice, and give yourself a warm hug.
Why do we read less and less now Life is a long-distance journey that needs to be crossed over mountains and mountains, and we can carry it for a while, but we can't carry it for a lifetime.
If you are tired, stop and rest, so that the rest of the road can be easier.
The more difficult life is, the more you must be kind to yourself.
In the future, be strong, but don't pretend to be strong.
Please love yourself more and take care of yourself more.
Only by spending more time and energy on yourself and what it is worth doing can you make your life a little sweeter.
May you be a brave and gentle person, live a little more open-minded, and life will be more flavorful.
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