Is there an inevitable connection between whether children can do housework or not and whether they can honor their parents when they grow up and whether they can have the ability after leaving society? From my personal point of view, there is a necessary connection.
Well, this is a topic worth pondering. In the real society, it is not difficult to find that some children mix very well in society, like a fish in water, left and right, and are very filial to their parents. But some children are a treasure at home, and their parents don't want to agree to let him do anything, holding it in their mouths for fear of melting, and putting it on their heads for fear of falling. As a result, when it was really his turn to face society, he did nothing and was not filial to his parents.
Let's talk about this child who is a treasure at home.
This child was also born in the countryside, and his family background is not superior, but he is still doing well, and his parents must be hard-working people. The child was born in the 90s and is the only child in the family. Therefore, the family regarded him as a treasure. Since he was a child, his parents didn't let him go to the field once, didn't let him sweep or mop the house, and didn't let him learn to cook or anything. Yilai stretched out his hand to eat and opened his mouth, and lived a very chic life.
But people, relying on parents can't rely on a lifetime, in front of the child is 35 this year, and he has not yet married and had children. As a parent, he sighed and said: "I think this baby is gone, I don't care, let him go." "At the age of 35, I work outside, but I still need to be subsidized by my family from time to time, saying that I have no money to eat. As for whether he is filial or not, we can imagine it, except for asking his parents for money, he will call**, and at other times, he never remembers his parents.
Again, let's talk about another child.
This child was also born in the 90s, and his parents are also farmers, and his family is average, but his parents are hard-working people. When the child was 5 years old, he had to sleep alone at night because of his parents' part-time job. Occasionally, because his parents couldn't come back to cook for him during the day shift, he had to follow his parents' example and cook for himself. At that time, when I didn't have a stove height, I built a stool and stood on the stool to fry vegetables. The work of cleaning at home is very self-heating, and it falls on the children.
When the farming season came, his parents would tell him to go to work in the fields together, and if he couldn't do heavy work, he would do what he could, such as putting a rope on the edge of the border, collecting a rope, sending food or boiling water to his parents in the field, in short, everything he could.
Seeing this, do you think that this parent does not love him? How can he be made to do so many things? In fact, this child is also the only child in this family. His parents also regarded him as a treasure. All the delicious food is the first to be eaten by him, and sometimes the parents are reluctant to eat and spend money to give the child tricks. From the heart, this child is the happiest child to receive all the father's and mother's love.
Now this child works in the city, but from time to time he also finds time to go back to see his parents, and still helps his parents work as before. I usually give my parents money or buy clothes, or take them to the movies or travel on vacation. The neighbors were very envious, and the people in the village praised the child for his filial piety.
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Do you think it's good to let your child do the housework? In any case, let him know how to be grateful, only when he is grateful, he will go further and better. And housework is the best exercise.