In "The First Half of My Life", the fates of the characters are intertwined, the marital entanglements are embarrassing, and the emotional disputes between Luo Zijun, Ling Ling and Chen Junsheng make the audience feel deeply sad. Today, let's take an in-depth analysis of this emotional storm, a thought-provoking question: "is also married to Chen Junsheng, who has an annual salary of 1.5 million, why can Luo Zijun carry a bag of 60,000 yuan, but Ling Ling is always tight?" ”
First of all, let's review Luo Zijun's married life. She has lived in Shanghai since she was a child, and has a good family background and excellent educational resources. In the early days of his marriage with Chen Junsheng, it can be said that he was happy. However, over time, Luo Zijun fell into an over-reliance on the promise of "I will raise you". She is obsessed with enjoying the life of a rich wife, but she is short-sighted about the nature of marriage and future planning. As the saying goes: "If people have no foresight, they must have near-term worries", Luo Zijun's choice has caused problems that cannot be ignored in marriage.
This short-sighted attitude to life made Luo Zijun rely too much on Chen Junsheng's financial support, and neglected his personal growth and career pursuit. Her extravagant life is impressive, with a bag of 60,000 and a watch of 110,000, she seems to live a frugal life. This makes one wonder whether marriage is based on material or spiritual resonance. Is Luo Zijun on the road to finding happiness, is he going in the wrong direction?
And Ling Ling, another female character in the play, presents a stark contrast to the audience. Ling Ling is different from Luo Zijun's extravagant life, she is known for her frugality, however, her doting on her son Jiaqing is beyond doubt. This unique understanding of family has made her more resilient and decisive in the workplace. However, Ling Ling's appearance became a turning point in Luo Zijun's fate, whether to destroy or be reborn, everything depended on her own choice.
With Ling Ling's rise, she became Chen Junsheng's new wife and the dominant figure in the family economy. However, her excessive doting on her son Jiaqing and her financial decisions about the family made Chen Junsheng feel a lot of financial pressure. This seemingly thrifty but scheming behavior is in stark contrast to Luo Zijun's luxurious life. Ling Ling's economic skills and unique management of the family make people wonder whether the economy in marriage should be a process of mutual cooperation, rather than one party leading the other and passively accepting.
Finally, let's borrow a sentence from Lin Huiyin to express our thoughts on this marital storm: "The cat in the alley is very free, but it has no home; The dog in the wall has a home, but it has to bow its head for the rest of its life. This is perhaps the most profound analysis of marriage. In the multiple-choice questions of life, everyone faces all kinds of troubles and entanglements, and how to find their own happiness in the predicament may be the problem that each of us needs to think about.
Through the depiction of the lives of Luo Zijun, Ling Ling and Chen Junsheng in "The First Half of My Life", it vividly shows the complex contradictions in marriage and the inner struggles of the characters. This marital storm made the audience not only think about the relationship between material and spiritual, economic and emotional in marriage, but also triggered deep thinking about life choices. May we be able to look at marriage rationally in our own lives and bravely pursue our own happiness.