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Luck may not be seen or touched, but it does surround everyone at all times. If you have the following 4 behaviors of overdrawing your luck, be sure to quit it as soon as possible.
Anger will drive away luck.
A person's open-mindedness is reflected in the time of despair; A person's self-cultivation is reflected in when he is angry. To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others. It not only traps oneself in the whirlpool of emotions, but also causes harm to the body. If a person is always irritable and angry, he or she is actually taking away the opportunities and resources that should belong to you. When the anger is rising, you may wish to calm down for three minutes, let reason prevail over impulse, and let peace return to the heart. There is nothing in the world that you can't get by, only yourself and yourself. Many times, when I look back, a lot of miserable things are actually fighting against myself. Control yourself, have less temper, and be more sensible, so that you can seize the opportunity and take control of your life.
Words complain and lose luck.
Those who like to talk about positive words such as "it must be okay" and "there will always be a way" will always get through it even when they encounter difficulties. And people who say complaining language such as "It's really unlucky to meet this kind of thing" and "It's all bad to blame him" all day long are often prone to setbacks and often bad luck. Language can change people's lives. The words that a person often utters often become prophecies of his life. A person who has resentment in his mouth and always complains about life will also be with him. Change the mantra to positive words, and if the words are good, blessings will come. To be a man, you can't just complain, but you must find life in adversity and learn to face everything with a peaceful mind. Look at the good side of things and say good things for yourself, and those good wishes will slowly become a reality.
Calculated, will kill luck.
People who are good at calculation seem to take advantage, but in fact they are short-sighted and can't go far in the end. Sincere and honest people seem to suffer losses, but in fact, the road is getting wider and wider, and they can eventually succeed. The human heart is a road, the more calculated, the narrower the road becomes, and finally cut off its own back road. If you design a friend, you will be separated from the friend and eventually isolated. If you think about your partner, you will lose your integrity and end up in business. The moment you calculate others, that's when you go downhill. People have small abacus, heaven has big abacus, and people who are not willing to suffer at all will eventually be eaten by their own greed. What can really make a person go long is the steadfastness of wisdom and foolishness. Luck has cause and effect, and if you manage your good causes, you will also be blessed in the future.
Too arrogant and will run out of luck.
Arrogance comes from shallowness, and low-key is based on insight. The more uneducated a person is, the more likely he is to be complacent; The more people who have seen the world, the more they understand their own insignificance. Really powerful people know how to get along with people in a measured way, leave room for improvement, and there will always be a way out. In "Miscellaneous", it is said: "Prosperity is easy to be a disaster, and humility is always blessed." "Being high above can easily lead to disaster, and guarding against arrogance and rashness can attract good luck. arrogant, can't elevate yourself, it will only make people feel uncultivated; Insulting and sarcastic will not be respected, and will only lose one's demeanor. The water is silent, and the people are steady. Oppressing people with power will inevitably alienate people; Only by convincing people with reason will they be respected. There are people outside the people, and there are mountains outside the mountains. Recognize yourself, lower your posture, and work hard in a down-to-earth manner, so as to avoid disasters and widen the road.
No one is born strong, and no one is born with great luck. The opportunities given by God are often hard to find; The luck you create by your own hands can always be with you. As long as we settle down first and continue to make controllable efforts, you will be able to capture more possibilities for your life.
Editor |Jin Jia, produced by People's Forum.
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