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Recently, the topic of whether to help or not has reappeared in everyone's field of vision, it turned out that the incident of the old man scolding money happened again, but he was dragged to compensate for it, what is going on?
The old man fell and demanded compensation from the rescuer.
Recently, there was a ** on the Internet, and the person who took the ** was a woman. I saw that in **, we could see an old man trembling and grabbing the corner of a man's clothes.
* The woman next to her told the story of the incident, and it turned out that the old man accidentally rolled over while riding a tricycle on the road.
At this time, a man passed by, so he was accompanied by another boy, and the two of them helped the old man up and helped him to the side of the road to rest.
It was an act of doing good, and the two men did not ask the old man for anything in return. However, after thinking about it, the old man didn't know whether he was confused or misunderstood, so he directly grabbed the corner of the boy's clothes and wanted to ask the two for compensation.
However, when the two expressed that they were just kind enough to help, the old man insisted on asking the two boys for money, saying, "You have to give me some."
The two boys who did good deeds were directly stunned, and they didn't think that they would encounter this situation when they were good people and good deeds.
The girl who filmed the ** told the story on the side, saying that she hoped to get everyone's testimony that she and her brother were just doing good deeds and didn't want to be wronged for it.
Imagine if people who do good deeds encounter this situation, will someone help them if they fall down in the future?
The social problem of not being able to help.
Prior to this incident, there had been a number of such accidents. The old man fell to the ground, and the passers-by helped him up to help the old man, but then he was framed by the old man.
In December last year, when two students were walking on the road, they saw an elderly man fall to the ground, kindly helped him up, and took the old man to the hospital, and then paid 5,000 yuan for his medical expenses.
I thought that my kindness would be rewarded, but after the old man's family arrived at the hospital, he didn't even hear a word of thanks, and at the same time, his family even asked for compensation.
The old man and his family unanimously said that it must be the responsibility of the two students, and in desperation, the two students could only contact their parents and ask them to help them.
At this time, the parents of the two students could not communicate with the old man, and finally had no choice but to find the police and ** to deal with the matter together.
After the police investigation, we found that the old man accidentally fell down when he was driving in the wrong direction on the highway, and two students passed by and felt that they should help the old man to help him up, and sent him to the hospital**, during which he paid 5,000 yuan in advance for medical expenses.
And when the old man's child came to the hospital, not only did he not return the 5,000 yuan, but he even had to ask for more compensation.
When the police found out about the incident, they explained to the old man what happened and said that the medical expenses paid by the students should be returned.
However, the old man said that the students helped him and were jointly and severally responsible. The family members, including the old man, also unanimously said that they would not return the money.
Later, when the reporter interviewed the old man, the old man also said the same thing, saying that he would not pay back the student's money, which they should have paid.
The attitude of the elderly and their families is unanimous, which is chilling. After continuous persuasion by the police and reporters, the old man finally reflected on his mistake and wanted to return the student's money.
The old man's sister came out again, saying that it was impossible to return the money, and even wanted to frame the police for beating someone in the process of communication.
This series of unexpected operations is really happening in reality. The old man later refused to be interviewed and communicated by reporters.
In the end, the police had no choice but to contact the children of the elderly, and it might be more convenient to communicate with the young people to solve the problem, but in the process of communicating with the children, we felt the indifference of human feelings.
It turned out that in the process of communicating with the woman, the police told about the incident, and said that they should at least say thank you to the two students who helped the old man, instead of blackmailing them for their money.
The woman was stunned for a moment, her face showing confusion that she was going to thank them. Only then did he react and say that he should thank them.
However, at this time, I don't know if she made such a decision under the pressure of ** and the police, or if she just thought so in her heart.
This series of operations not only chilled the hearts of the two students who helped people, but also made them doubt their good deeds.
It turned out that his good deeds ushered in such a complicated result, and he even needed compensation. I wonder if the next time this kind of thing happens, will the two students lend a helping hand again?
I still remember that a few years ago, Shen Teng and Ma Li acted in a sketch, which was to discuss the social issue of whether to help or not. There is a very classic sentence in it: "If a person falls, you don't help it, if the heart falls, you can't help it." ”
The reason for the emergence of the problem of whether to help or not.
Combining the occurrence of these two things, we found that there is a common denominator, that is, some elderly people bite back after being kindly rescued, all in order to get compensation.
This can't help but make us think about whether the good guys have become bad, or the bad guys have gotten old.
There are many other situations that arise about such incidents, and there are many other situations that are always considered when encountering such situations in the future.
will consider that when the old man is helped up, if he wants to slander people, it is as simple as opening his mouth to say a word, but the rescuer has to issue various certificates, and there are relevant witnesses to prove his innocence.
And when you choose not to save the elderly, you can directly avoid the following series of troublesome things, but it is difficult to convince your heart.
There are also many discussions about such issues on the Internet, and many people say that their monthly salary is only 3,000 yuan, and they want to do good deeds but can't afford such costs.
Some people also said that they were kind enough to do such a thing, but in the end they were going to be bitten back, and if they finally ushered in such an ending, then they would choose to be a passerby, because they had a beautiful family and didn't want to use their lives to test the conscience of strangers.
Of course, there are also many positive comments that not all people's hearts are bad, and it may be a few old people who have no social concepts, and there are still many honest and kind people in society. If you encounter such a situation in the future, you will still choose to help.
Otherwise, when everyone encounters this situation, and everyone chooses to turn a blind eye and turn a blind eye, what will become of the social atmosphere?
Everyone gets old one day, and if you are really falling down when you are old, but no one comes to help you, wouldn't it be chilling.
And about this matter, many people are calling for a law and regulation, in the good deeds, if you encounter the situation of the elderly slandering, it is recommended to revoke the medical insurance of the elderly, and at the same time the incident will be in their children's workplace to set an example.
And this punishment seems to be impersonal, but it is actually to regulate the occurrence of this series of situations. As long as you don't move this crooked mind, you won't offend related things at all.
Of course, the situation of the elderly slandering people is individual, and there is monitoring everywhere in the society now, and there are very few related incidents of slander.
Including the incident of the old man in Zhoukou, there are dashcams on the vehicles on the side of the road, which can film the whole process of the man's rescue.
Many people posted comments in the comment area, saying that their cars were parked around, and they would provide certain help if needed.
Moreover, the man has relevant videos in the process of rescuing people, saying that he only helped the old man with kindness, and was not the perpetrator of the accident, hoping to get everyone's support and help.
Of course, we also believe that the old man was just confused when he fell, and he didn't really want to make a false idea.
I also hope that in the future, there will be relevant regulations to regulate the occurrence of this series of things, correct the social atmosphere, and make people who do good things not feel cold.
More and more people are willing to do good deeds, and this kind of social atmosphere is what we want to see.