In fact, in marriage, you need to manage each other, and if you want to divorce, you must first calm down and consider these aspects.
1. Is the idea of divorce normal?
You will encounter all kinds of problems in life, you will feel tired and tired, and you also need to think carefully about whether you really want to end your marriage, you really can't hold on, and the decision you made impulsively will make you regret it.
2. Living apart for a long time, the relationship is weak?
If you and your significant other have been separated for a long time and the relationship has weakened, then you should consider whether divorce is better for your future. After all, relationships need to be cultivated, and if the relationship between you has weakened, then divorce is also a good thing for you. After all, a marriage without feelings is a kind of torture for anyone.
3. Is divorce the only way to solve the problem?
When we encounter problems, we habitually choose to escape, and so is marriage, some problems can be solved, and if we start a new marriage in the same way, we may still encounter the same, or even greater problems.
4. Can divorce make both parties live better?
The circumstances of each marriage are different, and each person's personality is different, and the outcome after divorce will be different. Some people's marriages have existed in name only, they have seen the reality clearly, they have got rid of the torn relationship, they have been liberated, and they have started to be wonderful after the divorce, and they really live the happy life they want; There are also some people who are very bleak after divorce, many couples divorce because of affair incidents, and there are also surveys that show that the divorce rate with a third party and union is higher.
5. What problems have arisen in the marriage and can they be solved?
The idea of divorce often appears in the so-called "problem marriage", such as cheating by one party, physical distress (including sexual disharmony, infertility, etc.), conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, communication barriers between husband and wife, etc. If the other party has bad habits such as cheating, domestic violence, gambling, etc., then you are advised to divorce as soon as possible.
If you want to divorce, you need to be cautious, you must see the essence clearly, and you can't act impulsively so as not to regret it, but if in a marriage, there are a lot of holes, then leaving is a good decision.
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