What are couples who have been together for more than 20 years generally like?
is as plain as water, getting along like roommates, familiar with strangeness; Or is it that your eyes are so disgusted that even breathing has become a mistake?
Mr. recently discovered that there is a couple in the entertainment industry who uses their own stories to tell countless people:
It turns out that decades of love are not just a fairy tale.
Some time ago, Xiao Shenyang officially announced a solo concert without too much publicity.
The feedback has been rave reviews.
At the performance, he sang a love song "Yilan Love Story" for his wife Shen Chunyang.
The audience was immersed in a slightly sad singing, and Shen Chunyang, who had been staring at her husband, couldn't help crying when she listened to it.
What is quite touching is that Xiao Shenyang actually noticed the state of his lover early.
He soon came to his wife's side, patted her on the shoulder, and comforted her.
Afterwards, many people sighed and said: It turns out that even if they are old husbands and wives, they can always have each other in their eyes.
Xiao Shenyang once covered Mao Buyi's original song "Northeast Folk Song".
When the ** theory is said, Xiao Shenyang is the most suitable person to sing this song.
is because he is an authentic Northeasterner, and his iconic high-pitched voice vividly interprets the poignancy and sorrow of this song.
And most importantly, he actually understands the core of this song.
After all, his experience with his wife is the realistic version of the 23-year-long Northeast love story.
Many people don't know that Xiao Shenyang used to practice martial arts.
Originally named Shen He, he was born into a family that was not wealthy.
For the sake of his future, his parents pooled money to send him to a martial arts school, just so that he could have a skill.
Shen He is also very sensible, he gets up early and trains greedily in school, and his performance is quite good.
But the tuition fee of the martial arts school is too expensive, and seeing that his parents can't afford it, Shen He has no intention of continuing to stay.
Children in the countryside are in charge of the family at an early age.
In order to alleviate the burden on his parents, Shen He, who was only a teenager, went out to work hard with a few hundred yuan in his pocket.
While learning, he went to do the work of singing duos, acrobatics, singing, and playing ugly.
He has done all kinds of work, and he has endured all kinds of hardships.
It was a time of pain for him to even breathe.
During this period with Shen Chunyang's acquaintance is his only gain.
At that time, Shen Chunyang was actually much more popular than Shen He.
She has been performing on stage since she was a year old, and she is a little famous.
Because of the illness of her partner by chance, Shen He had the opportunity to cooperate with Shen Chunyang.
As a result, I didn't expect that it was just the first time they cooperated, but they cooperated flawlessly and won a full house.
Gradually, they became each other's only partners, and Shen He also gave himself a stage name-Little Shenyang
The two turned artists, which sounds quite stylish, but in fact, they earn all their hard money.
gave a spicy hot shop opening performance, two people sang and danced on stage, and Xiao Shenyang had to perform all kinds of acrobatics.
After surviving, there was only 200 yuan in total.
And this is already a big job for the two.
Sometimes, in order to earn a tip, the guest has to drink 30 bottles of beer in a row.
drank and vomited, spit and drank, and became a clown who satisfied the bad taste of others.
As for being insulted or even beaten and scolded by guests, it is a common thing.
Xiao Shenyang and Shen Chunyang have been singing together for 10 years, and it is no exaggeration to say that they witnessed and accompanied each other through the worst time.
But Xiao Shenyang never let Shen Chunyang suffer a trace of grievances, even if he only had a hundred yuan left in his pocket and could only eat one meal a day, he would only give it to Shen Chunyang first.
In the process of getting along slowly, cultivating simple and sincere feelings may be the only romance in these bitter years.
They gradually changed from partners to lovers, then from lovers to husband and wife, and then became parents together.
Shen Chunyang also learned later that when they first partnered together, the other party fell in love with him at first sight.
The name Xiao Shenyang was actually chosen for her.
There has been a saying circulating on the Internet:No one has ever been popular in 2009.
Xiao Shenyang, who finally kept the clouds open and saw the moon, and never gave up fighting against fate, ushered in the biggest turning point in his life after apprenticeship with Zhao Benshan.
The sketch "Not Bad Money", which has only been rehearsed for more than ten days, became an instant hit in the Spring Festival Gala.
The national audience also met a northeastern guy with pants and a name of Xiaoshenyang on the night of the Chinese New Year's Eve.
Xiao Shenyang suddenly changed from an ordinary duo to an actor, and turned into a hot first-line star.
At that time, countless peers were jealous of his good life.
And rumors about him floating after he became popular and wanted to abandon his wife spread everywhere.
There are also many people who believe, after all, there are husbands and wives who share suffering, but there are very few lovers who share happiness.
The penitent husband is looking for a marquis, how many wives feel from the heart.
But Xiao Shenyang really exceeded everyone's surprise.
Everyone found that this guy not only did not dislike his wife, but became more sticky with the other party.
Zhao Benshan also personally refuted the rumors for him, and even said that even he envied the relationship between Xiao Shenyang and his wife.
No matter where he goes or what work he attends, Xiao Shenyang seems to take his wife with him.
He and his wife sang "Love is You and Me" into an exclusive love song for the two.
In every work of Xiao Shenyang, almost all of them will have their wives participating.
Sometimes his wife comes to visit his filming, he will naturally give up the most comfortable seat to his wife, and he will sit next to her, even if it is just a little Maza, he will be very happy.
In his daily routine, his wife always occupies the largest space.
Shen Chunyang once recorded that on her birthday, Xiao Shenyang secretly got up alone and rolled noodles, just to make her a bowl of longevity noodles with heart.
And every year on the wedding anniversary, Xiao Shenyang will send a commemorative document with his heart.
He had said so sincerely:
"Actually, I didn't think about anything else at that time, I just thought that it was not easy for this woman to follow me. I'm famous, I can't think of anything else, I have to put my wife at ease! ”
The most touching thing is that it is also because of Xiao Shenyang that Shen Chunyang has passed the most difficult moment in his life.
In 2017, her mother was diagnosed with a rare terminal illness.
Shen Chunyang, who had already lost his father in a short period of time, almost collapsed.
During that time, Xiao Shenyang became the last pillar in her heart.
He put down all his work and took his mother-in-law to do a check-up, like his biological parents
Sometimes her mother-in-law feels difficult because of taking chemotherapy drugs, so Xiao Shenyang will use various methods to distract her attention, sing a two-person turn for her mother-in-law, twist Yangge for her, and make her happy.
Although her mother-in-law passed away three years later, Shen Chunyang was very relieved that because of her husband's company, her mother was at least happy in the years she was sober.
She also asked her husband, "How did I become an orphan?"
But he said, "Don't you still have me, and the old girl, I won't make you feel lonely.
Shen Chunyang once shared his feelings after hearing this answer on Weibo:
Although the answer is very common, I feel that I often hear these words on TV, but when I actually hear these words, I still feel different.
Gives me a lot of strength and more of a sense of security!
I thank him for not letting my mom and dad leave with regrets. ”
Some people may say that this is not the way it should be?
Yes, but how much is it really done?
Shen Chunyang once said, maybe I am not the most beautiful woman, or the most temperamental woman. But I can say for sure that I am a very happy woman.
For Xiao Shenyang, whether it was the hardships and hardships at the beginning, or the overnight popularity, or no one cared about it after the heat became cold.
Since they met, their life trajectories have all coincided.
With Shen Chunyang's company, every moment of his life is not cold but warm.
What should a high-level marriage and a sincere relationship look like?
I think the answer can be summed up in one sentence:He didn't make me feel alone.