Surprised** secret: there is a ...... hidden in the drawer of the junior high school son
That calm afternoon, I went into my son's room as usual to help him tidy up his desk. A touch of heterochromatic packaging in the drawer made me stunned for a moment - it was clearly the packaging of ** supplies. My heart was beating faster and my first reaction was: how is this possible? My son is only in junior high school!
I believe that many parents will feel shocked and uneasy when faced with such situations. You start asking yourself: how did he come into contact with this? Am I doing something wrong? Will he be led down the wrong path because of this?
In fact, in today's information age, children's access to content has greatly increased. But that doesn't mean they really understand the content, and a lot of the time, they're just out of curiosity. So, as parents, our first reaction should not be scolding, but communication and understanding.
I took a deep breath and decided to have a good talk with my son. I asked him why he bought these things, and he was silent for a while before he whispered, "I'm just curious and want to see what it is." "I told him that it was normal to be curious, but that there were things that were not appropriate for his age because they could have a bad effect on his psyche.
I asked him if he knew what they were really for and what the consequences might be. He shook his head, clearly unclear. I realized that this was an educational opportunity and I needed to tell him everything about sex, about growth, about responsibility.
After this conversation, I clearly felt that my son had become more mature and sensible. He started asking me questions about sexuality and shared his confusion and thoughts with me. I know that he is gradually understanding the world and is gradually becoming a real man.
So, when you find out that your child has bought ** supplies, don't panic and don't scold. Remember, communication and understanding are the most important things. Only in this way can you really get into your child's heart and help him grow up healthily. And if you feel that you are unable to deal with this problem, you may wish to seek the help of a counsellor who will give you more professional advice and support.