What sparked heated discussions among netizens was the latest recent photo released by 49-year-old Xu Jinglei on January 29.
Xu Jinglei wore a loose and comfortable top and black shorts in **, and stepped on a pair of white sneakers.
She clearly shows a vacation and leisure style, giving people a sense of casual freedom, without the constraints of idols at all.
Netizens commented on her: "Sister Xu, don't dress like this, there may be many people who mistakenly think that you are pregnant." ”
Xu Jinglei said self-deprecatingly: "Haha, you can only do casually." ”
Four years ago, there were rumors that the "unmarried" Xu Jinglei was pregnant.
Many netizens said that she likes to wear loose clothes to cover her pregnant belly.
However, Xu Jinglei immediately released her fitness ** at that time, naturally refuting the pregnancy rumors.
Why do netizens frequently speculate about whether Xu Jinglei is pregnant?
To understand Xu Jinglei's relationship status, it has always been rumored that she has had relationships with many men of varying degrees.
Xu Jinglei pursues the principle of "I'd rather fall in love than get married".
She only cares about the quality of love, and doesn't care about the age of the other party or even whether they are married or not.
She often makes netizens mistakenly think that she has found happiness, and after settling down, she will leave everything behind and continue to live an unfettered life.
What exactly is the freedom she has pursued all her life? At the same time, how did her attitude towards feelings come about?
Xu Jinglei has been lonely all her life, and her inner desire for freedom is reflected in her superficial behavior.
Under her free and easy appearance, there is actually a rebellion against her father's "** behavior."
Xu Zijian is the name of Xu Jinglei's father.
Xu Zijian was poor when he was young, and at the age of 17, he went to a light bulb factory to get a job.
After learning the entire production process, he left the bulb factory and set up his own neon factory.
However, the light bulb factory's meager wages alone could not keep the plant running;
He couldn't even afford to buy an upfront machine.
He succeeded in getting the neon factory back into operation by collecting unwanted appliances and converting them into production machines.
In the end, with Xu Zijian's efforts, the neon light factory gradually prospered.
The reason why Xu Zijian was able to develop the neon light factory to its current scale is entirely due to his extraordinary perseverance and hard work from scratch.
His determination is decisive and unquestionable, showing his daring personality.
However, he is also autocratic in the family, and it can even be said that he has reached the level of "**."
Since Xu Jinglei can remember, she has started her life according to her father's plan.
On a page, her father recorded in detail Xu Jinglei's daily arrangements such as studying, walking, eating, and resting.
Xu Jinglei has arranged her time in an orderly manner, planning every week, every day, and even every minute.
Xu Zijian will even beat Xu Jinglei with his hands, as long as her grades are a little behind.
What Xu Jinglei felt most suffocated was her mother's "compromise" attitude.
Sometimes, Xu Jinglei's mother would also find it unacceptable to Xu Zijian's extreme education methods, and she wanted to discuss another method with him.
Xu Zijian resolutely refused to accept the refutation, and even claimed that Xu Jinglei's mother had been subjected to "domestic violence".
Whenever her mother was beaten, she would sit on the bed and cry.
She will say to Xu Jinglei, if it weren't for you, I would have divorced a long time ago.
The mother transferred all the violence of her father to the young Xu Jinglei.
The oppressive atmosphere of the family has created the rebellious Xu Jinglei today.
She pursued self-realization in an independent and maverick way, and even when she was admitted to Nortel, she "silently rebelled" against her father.
Xu Jinglei's mother has been trapped in a desperate "marriage grave" all her life.
As a result, she has always been afraid of the constraints of marriage, and she has pursued freedom all her life, even going through several different relationships.
Wang Shuo and Xu Jinglei.
Gao Xiaosong once praised Xu Jinglei as "a charming woman full of Beijing atmosphere".
Not only does she have a charming appearance, but she also exudes infinite charm and is extremely attractive to men.
Xu Jinglei braved her father's opposition in 1993 and resolutely decided to apply for the Beijing Film Academy.
She broke free from her father's shackles and began to live the life she wanted, and soon met the first benefactor in her life - Wang Shuo.
At that time, Wang Shuo could be described as a typical intellectual in Beijing;
Not only did he come from a wealthy family, but he also wrote "Sunny Days", which became popular across the country as soon as it aired.
When they first met, Xu Jinglei felt that there was some kind of resonance between them.
Both of them love freedom, pursue an uninhibited lifestyle, and have a fatal attraction to each other.
Xu Jinglei soon started a love conversation with Wang Shuo.
Xu Jinglei originally thought that she had found Prince Charming, who could love her for the rest of her life;
However, when I heard Wang Shuo mention his wife and children, I was suddenly pulled back to reality and realized that I was just a "third party".
Xu Jinglei has been lonely for a long time, but she still hasn't decided to break up with Wang Shuo.
However, since then, she no longer regards Wang Shuo as an object that she can rely on for the rest of her life.
In order to make up for Xu Jinglei, Wang Shuo began to treat her in a different way, and constantly gave her the best quality resources she could obtain.
In 1994, Xu Jinglei became famous with "You at the Same Table", and then received various invitations one after another.
However, Xu Jinglei is not limited by the status quo, she exudes a free and easy atmosphere.
Instead, she decided to give up filming and concentrate on filming instead.
Wang Shuo naturally fully supported his girlfriend Xu Jinglei, finding resources, attracting investment, and arranging actor ...... for her
With Wang Shuo's strong support, Xu Jinglei's first film "My Dad" was quickly released.
Xu Jinglei has received numerous praises for her role in the movie "My Dad", and was given the title of "talented girl".
Then, she participated in the filming of several films in a row, further consolidating her status as a "talented woman".
However, although she seems to be successful in her career and love, in fact, her relationship with Wang Shuo has ended.
Wang Shuo's wife soon discovered the relationship between Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo, and threatened them to break the relationship immediately.
Xu Jinglei doesn't care about this, even if she has been accused of being a "little three" by netizens, she is still undisturbed.
She even said to Wang Shuo's wife,"Your home is already a place for me to do as I want, so you might as well give him to me. "
Although she spoke confidently, Wang Shuo remained vague.
He is more concerned about not wanting a divorce, although he is not willing to break off relations with Xu Jinglei.
Xu Jinglei gradually recognized Wang Shuo's true face and decided to resolutely end their relationship.
She then rejoins her once free life and soon experiences another relationship.
Huang Lixing and Xu Jinglei.
After Xu Jinglei broke up with Wang Shuo, she had scandals with Wang Xuebing, Sanbao and others.
She behaves dashing and uninhibited when it comes to her feelings, starting a new relationship as she pleases, and then ending it effortlessly.
It seems to pass forever without stopping for anyone.
* She is often photographed smoking and drinking, but she doesn't care about the condemnation of netizens.
However, one day, she suddenly announced her relationship publicly, as if to devote herself to it from now on.
In 2010, Xu Jinglei posted a picture on social platforms and published a proclamation, announcing that she was in love with Huang Lixing.
Since then, she has praised her boyfriend's thoughtfulness many times on the show, and the relationship between the two is extraordinarily sweet.
Huang Lixing has a stable personality, and during his love affair with Xu Jinglei, he gradually helped her quit the habit of smoking.
When Huang Lixing and Xu Jinglei got along, not only did they never quarrel, but they always maintained an attitude of being in love.
Just when everyone thought that Xu Jinglei was going to quit the entertainment industry, she said to **
I don't think getting married today will make me happier than I was yesterday!
Xu Jinglei's possible indifferent attitude stimulated Huang Lixing, causing the two to drift apart.
Eventually, they ended their relationship that lasted 5 years.
Since then, Xu Jinglei has never made her love life public, only a steady stream of scandals.
Due to the existence of these rumors, the rumors of Xu Jinglei's pregnancy have not subsided.
She once revealed in an interview that she had already considered having a baby, which may be the reason why she has been rumored to be pregnant.
However, Xu Jinglei pursues a free and easy life.
Xu Jinglei, who has achieved great success in the film industry, did not choose to be a director all the time, but chose to pursue a new life.
She has undergone a transformation from actor to director to producer;
She was at the peak of her career and then chose to study abroad.
After Xu Jinglei broke up with Huang Lixing, she settled abroad with her family.
Here, she began to develop her hobbies, learning to draw, practice calligraphy, explore photography, and make handicrafts.
She also often shares her latest developments on social accounts and introduces her current life status to netizens.
Xu Jinglei has been calm with many rumors about her pregnancy.
She is no longer in the rush to explain the rumors about the pregnancy on January 29 as she was before.
The answer will be revealed over time. She said.
I don't have any regrets about my life.
This summary is Xu Jinglei's summary of her life, and it also represents the resonance of netizens.
She is like the wind of freedom, and when she is tired, she will take a break somewhere, but she will not allow anyone to be restrained.
I hope that Xu Jinglei's future life will always be full of excitement and live freely.