ForAn older leftover woman over the age of 35, it will become more difficult to get rid of the single. This is an undeniable fact. Everyone knows this very well. Girls who want to get off the list also need to work hard.
In many cases, as long as we analyze carefully, we can find the main reason. Once this critical issue is addressed, it will not be so difficult to get rid of the order.
Therefore, girls in this age group need to have their situation assessed. Carefully understand your specific situation, so that you can know in your heart and deal with it calmly when you get off the list.
It is difficult for older leftover women who have passed the age of 35 to get out of singles, not because they have no choice, but because of these reasons.
The first reason: the reluctance to accept reality
Many older leftover women always put on a lofty posture, especially those with good conditions. It feels arrogant and indifferent.
Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, if you are still single at the age of 35, you must have a big problem.
Some older leftover women will claim to like being single, but they behave contrary to it, and they themselves don't believe what they say. In fact, they also want to get rid of the single, but they always feel that they are very good and are unwilling to lower their requirements.
They will think that they are just a little older, and they still have competitive advantages, for example, they are financially well-off, their work and life are okay, and they seem to lack nothing.
For finding a marriage partner, we must insist on preferring shortage to excess.
As a result, they have fewer options. In this state of mind, it becomes more difficult to get out of order.
However, they never think this is wrong. This is also the biggest source of their difficulty in getting out of singles.
The second reason: always remain in a passive state
There are some older leftover women who are old-fashioned in their thinking and do not actively face the problem of getting off the list. Even if there are men who pursue, they will set various tests.
If you are still unwilling to face it positively at the age of 35, it will be really difficult to get rid of the single. Some girls were originally pursued by someone, but because there were too many tests set. Ultimately failed.
Trials are necessary, but they shouldn't be too harsh. To a certain extent, there are men pursuing you in this state, which also shows that you still have a certain competitive advantage, but this does not become your capital to despise others.
If you still think very highly of yourself, it's hard to get out of the list. One must make a fair assessment of oneself. Some older leftover women just can't see their disadvantages. I'm 35 years old, and I still think I'm like a young girl in my early 20s.
Their mindset is not correct. It is difficult for such a girl to get off the list. It's a matter of their own ideas and feelings. It's hard to get out of singles, and you can't blame anyone else. Any embarrassing consequences must be borne by themselves.
The third reason: some practical factors
Real problems are difficult to change, such as fertility problems. This is what men value the most, but older leftover women can't change it. It's a kind of helplessness. After the age of 35, this problem has indeed become a hard injury.
Fortunately, in today's era of advanced technology, the situation is not so pessimistic. However, it is still necessary to solve personal emotional problems as soon as possible, and if it is delayed any longer, the older you get, the more difficult it will be to get rid of the single.
In addition to changing one's own ideological concepts, it is more important to face it positively, judge the situation, and appropriately lower some of one's own requirements. Otherwise, the likelihood of getting out of the order will be lower and lower.
When you reach the age of age, you may have to choose only older men. At that time, many older leftover women with good economic conditions may no longer have the luxury of getting rid of singles.
As a result, they can only die alone.
For older leftover women, we must understand the following points.
First of all, this is your own problem, and you must actively work to face it. Second, the sooner it is resolved, the better.
Third, it is necessary to assess the situation at any time and lower the requirements if necessary. This is not to lower the requirements, but to respect objective reality. Don't always bring ideals into reality.
Fourth, don't be influenced by others, especially those who advocate singleness. Drinking too much poisonous chicken soup is not good for your health.
Fifth, don't waste time, such as getting to know each other on a blind date, and if you feel that each other is not suitable, you should change people in time. In other words, we must have a clear understanding of ourselves. If you don't pay attention to it, others won't help you solve it.
I would like to conclude by sayingEven after the age of 35, we still have to give ourselves some self-confidence. Actively work hard to get rid of the single. Only in this way may this issue be resolved as soon as possible.
If you don't have the idea of getting off the list, then I don't say anything.