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In recent years, young people's willingness to marry has declined, and in the first three quarters of 2023, 5.69 million couples have been registered for marriage and 197 have been registered for divorce30,000 pairs. From the data, we can know that the number of marriages is decreasing, so what is the root cause of young people's reluctance to get married?
1.The First Mountain: The Fear of Marriage Uncertainty.
The biggest advantage of contemporary young people is that they have a long-term perspective, pay more attention to their own feelings and have a greater sense of responsibility for themselves. To give you an example, just like the concept of young couples about having children, before having a child, you must consider the cost of their future growth, and the cost of having a child is increasing. The grandparents' generation had to have children at a low cost, just give birth to support them, and education was basically an add-on. The difference between the pressure of "feeding" and "raising" a child is that although living conditions are better now, the necessary cost of having a child is increasing. If today's young people only stay at the concept of "feeding" when it comes to having children, the birth rate will certainly not be very low.
The same is true for marriage, marriage is a major event in life, contemporary young people will be more responsible for themselves, they will fully consider their own conditions before marriage, and few people dare to take a step to see a step. Therefore, in recent years, there has been premarital cohabitation, this measure will reduce many unnecessary troubles after marriage, at least the relationship will be screened and reviewed first, whether the character is suitable or not, followed by other factors, and there is rarely a situation of marriage after love. Secondly, the biggest obstacle to marriage is the ideological level, the improvement of the education level, many people pay more attention to the communication of the soul, the higher the education of people to get married, the more important this article is, many people's principle is: it will be better to "fly solo". Even if they are married, most people who are not suitable will choose to separate and will not settle for it.
2.The first big mountain: economic pressure.
Economic pressure has become a hard indicator that must be considered for marriage, many young people have huge financial pressure, some are unemployed as soon as they graduate, and their families need to subsidize living expenses, so they have no confidence to get married. In terms of the pressure on Chinese men and women to get married, the pressure is mainly on the man. Mainly including wedding bride price, banquet management, etc., today's marriage has become a etiquette to see economic strength, the rapid development of the Internet, women have higher requirements for wedding ceremonies, and the pursuit of romance has caused a series of vicious atmosphere. The second is to consider the birth of children, parents and other issues.