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The online Q&A platform asked: In life, what secrets of interpersonal communication have you discovered that cannot be easily spoken?
My answer:
, people-to-people exchanges, courtesy exchanges can last for a long time.
For example, if someone gives you a favor, you have to give someone a favor. If there is no contact, then after a long time, the relationship will be gone.
For example, if a person eats and drinks for a long time, then this person is likely not to exist in this circle for a long time.
People should be a win-win situation.
People interact, friendship is one thing, and it is also beneficial to both parties.
If a person-to-people interaction is beneficial to only one of the parties, the relationship is often not long-lasting.
Let others be profitable, and you will have more friends.
It is necessary for people to interact with each other and have similar interests.
However, everyone needs profit to survive, so if a person wants to have more friends, he must be able to bring benefits to others.
For example, if you open a supermarket, your friends will definitely help out at the beginning of the opening, and they don't care about anything. However, if you want your friends to care and give to your supermarket for a long time, you have to find ways to give these people some benefits.
If you are a leather fence and don't leak soup, and you value a penny more than a grinding plate, your friends will definitely quietly stay away from you.
Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone.
The reality is that even relationships that seem iron are often fragile. So don't overestimate your relationship with anyone.
For example, your iron-looking buddies and sisters, you open your mouth to borrow 100,000 yuan to give it a try?
For example, if something damages their interests even if it is only 200 yuan, will you argue, quarrel or even turn your face with you?
When you are strong, you don't need to work hard, and you will have a lot of friends.
For example, if you are the boss of a department and have a lot of real power, then even if you are very introverted and have a bit of a stutter, you don't have to worry about not having friends. You'll still be often filled with friends and hear a lot of nice things that are generally nice.
When you're weak and useless to others, don't show off how many friends you've made.
Generally speaking, if you're in such a situation, there's a good chance that the friends you know who you show off, such as the friends you met at the wine table, won't really take you seriously.
If two people have different views, then no matter how long they have been dating, they cannot become confidants.
To become confidants between people, they need to have the same three views and have the same heart.
If the three views are different and the tastes are not compatible, then no matter how long you have been dating, how much you have drunk, how many times you have patted your chest, and how many vows you have promised, it is impossible for each other to become confidants.
Making bad friends is the biggest loss-making business.
When a person makes bad friends, it can be a waste of time, energy and money, or a mischief, trouble, or even trouble.
SoYou must have friends, but you must not be careless in making friends.
Colleagues are important relationships, but colleagues are not friends.
It is right for a person to value and be cautious about the relationship with colleagues.
However, a colleague is not like a friend.
For example, you can't expect too much from your colleagues, or you'll be disappointed.
For example, you can't be considerate of any of your colleagues, otherwise something may happen that is not good for you.
Many people, for some reason, may heat up for a while, and after a long time, they are passing by the clouds.
Many people are passers-by, and many encounters are passers-by.
SoYou don't need to be too infatuated or daunted by it.
If you're over forty, I think you'll understand that.
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