"Bought a new car, and my girlfriend was disappointed in me. ”
The boy was puzzled and asked, "Family, I'm a little confused. ”
But when he finished speaking and posted the chat record with his girlfriend, netizens in the comment area were not calm.
The boy talked about the cause and effect:
In March '21, her dad was walking home at night a while ago when he was hit by a motorcyclist, fell on the head, and is now in the intensive care unit.
Her family borrowed 100,000 yuan to treat the disease, but the person who hit her had no money and was still a minor.
Then, I picked up a new car and landed on the 20th80,000 yuan, my girlfriend's father was hospitalized and I borrowed 10,000 yuan, and she knew that I bought a car and said that she was disappointed in me. ”
In the chat history with his girlfriend, he wanted to share his joy of lifting a new car with his girlfriend, but he didn't expect to be dusty.
He said that he wanted to drive to the hospital to see his girlfriend's father, and by the way, let his girlfriend see his new car, and intimately bring food for his girlfriend, and said that he would help his girlfriend take care of it for a while, so that she could take a break.
But his girlfriend replied coldly: "You don't need it." ”
The boy didn't understand the meaning of his girlfriend's words, and still said: "I'll take you out for a supper and go out for a ride in my new car." ”
Maybe he just wanted to take his girlfriend to take a break and relieve the pressure of these days, but he didn't realize that at this time, his girlfriend needed more of his understanding and help, rather than taking her out for a ride in a new car.
Therefore, when my girlfriend heard it, she directly said: "Annoying, it's great for you to buy a car?" ”
Who knew that the boy still didn't understand what the girl meant, and the next thing he said directly sprinkled a handful of salt on his girlfriend's already scarred heart.
I don't have much money for this car. ”
He blurted out: "200,000 yuan, just a grocery cart." ”
As soon as this sentence came out, the girl's fire was ignited all of a sudden, and she said indignantly: "My family is about to die, are you still in the mood to giggle with me here, showing off the car you just bought?" ”
She was not in the mood to watch it at this time, so she asked her boyfriend not to be an eyesore, and refused to talk to him on the phone.
As soon as the boy saw that his girlfriend was really angry, he said that he would not drive a new car, he said that he just wanted to talk to her, and said that he would not let his girlfriend bear it alone.
Because his girlfriend's father's surgery fee was not enough, he transferred 10,000 yuan to his girlfriend, thinking that this would also be regarded as a part of his girlfriend's burden.
But his girlfriend didn't think that this could solve any problems for her, and said: "You are my boyfriend, is 10,000 yuan a lot in my family?" And again, borrowed. ”
Then he said: "I'm so disappointed in you, I'm still in the mood to buy a car in this situation." ”
The boy said he didn't understand, should he give the money to his girlfriend's father for medical treatment?
So, he also spoke his opinion, and he felt that he should be disappointed
The money to buy a car is what I saved after I worked, and not a penny in it has anything to do with you, knowing that your father has no money in the hospital, I borrowed 10,000 yuan from you, and our relationship is only in the stage of falling in love, and I have done well enough. ”
It turned out that this was the boy's true thoughts, he thought that his girlfriend's father had nothing to do with his car accident, and he didn't hit it.
What's even worse is his next sentence: "I don't even have money for treatment in the hospital, it's my problem, or your problem." ”
After seeing the ins and outs of the matter, netizens also left messages to express their opinions.
Most people think that boys' emotional intelligence is too low, even if they are not girlfriends, but friends will not be so indifferent.
Your previous words are really too rude to a person whose closest relatives are in the ICU, you are too immature, not worth relying on, and you don't have money to say. ”
It's okay for you to buy a car, and no one says that you should use the money to buy a car to treat her father, but it's not too much to say three words without your new car.
What's more than 200,000, their family now has to borrow 10,000 yuan, you are like the kind of person who eats delicacies from the mountains and seas when others are hungry, and you have to show them to him. ”
Who the hell wants to know about your new car? ”
I feel that the boy's sentence "I don't even have money for hospitalization" should be used to clear up the relationship, for fear that the girl will borrow money again.
The main thing is that the boy is the time to lift the new car, when can't he mention it, when he has to ask his girlfriend's father to lie in the ICU, and force his girlfriend to share the joy with you, isn't it too cold-blooded? You can do it!
However, some people agree that boys need to think about the relationship with their girlfriends again: "What kind of family is this woman, she doesn't even have a deposit of 100,000 or 200,000, but all hard-working and thrifty families have it, and this kind of woman can't get married." ”
The person with a neutral opinion said: "I understand that you don't give more money to your girlfriend, and I think 10,000 yuan is reasonable, but I don't understand that you keep saying that you take my new car, after all, her family has no money for medical treatment." ”
Perhaps, as everyone said, I feel that the boy doesn't want to be with his girlfriend who is not in a good state, and only hopes to be a "wine and meat" couple when she is stable, not only a matter of money, but also a boy who feels that he can not rely on.
Two people need to have the same three views when they are together, if they just want to fall in love happily and don't think about marrying each other, this series of operations can probably be understood.
Although borrowing money is love, not borrowing is duty, and not borrowing money can't say anything about boys, but choosing whether to continue is also a matter that two people should consider carefully.
So, what do you think?
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