A man was impulsive and married an older strong woman, but he was subjected to all kinds of sarcasm!
On the wedding anniversary, the woman prepared a large table of dishes, intending to surprise her husband, but no one expected that when she called her husband, the husband on the other end of the ** looked a little impatient.
I'm busy, what's the matter?
Can you come back early today? I've got a table for you that you like.
I'll go back when I'm done. Don't worry, I'll go back.
After the husband hangs up**, the woman feels lost and she understands that her husband has lost interest in her. The woman's name is Ni Weina and she is 42 years old. Two years ago, Ni Weina met her current husband Cao Mingwei through a friend. At that time, although the two faced the opposition of their families, they resolutely decided to get married. However, as time went on, the couple's marriage became more and more complicated. That night, Ni Weina prepared a table of her husband's favorite dishes to celebrate her wedding anniversary. However, when she called her husband **, he said he was busy and hung up**. The woman felt lost because she understood that her husband's attitude towards her was becoming more and more cold. The two began to have contradictions in their marriage. Ni Weina wanted to wait for her husband to come home to celebrate together, but she didn't expect her husband to come back in the middle of the night, exuding the smell of alcohol. Seeing this scene, Ni Weina's heart swelled with dissatisfaction. But the husband sat on the couch and began to complain.
What do you think is the big deal about an assistant manager? I don't want to be. I also told Xu Guan that it's not a big deal for you to be the deputy manager. I am better than him in terms of qualifications, education, energy and ability. Do you know what he says? He said he had always wanted to be an assistant manager because he had a family to support, unlike me, I had no children, and my wife had just been promoted to vice president. He said that my wife replaced the vice president, which shows that my wife is capable. I don't need to worry about eating and drinking. What is this theory? My wife replaced the vice president, and I don't care about that child.
Cao Mingwei, if you don't say a word, no one will sell you as a dumb person. The key problem is that you are not self-motivated.
Cao Mingwei was furious when he heard this, and felt that he was going to be counted down by his wife at home, and complained dissatisfied.
Alright, alright, you sober up.
I don't bother to pay attention to you. Ni Weina turned and went back to her room. Cao Mingwei continued to sit on the sofa and complain. Things led to a rift in the relationship between the husband and wife. Early the next morning, Ni Weina got up early to prepare breakfast for Cao Mingwei, but unexpectedly found that Cao Mingwei was still sleeping in bed. Ni Weina urged him to get up in dissatisfaction.
Hurry up, when are you still sleeping?
I took a leave of absence today and don't go to work.
Leave? Why?
You are nagging like an old mother, are you annoying? I'm telling you, this is not your company, don't educate me with the vice president's shelf. I won't eat your set, shut up and let me sleep for a while.
You are simply hopeless.
Cao Mingwei didn't respond, just glared at his wife, and then lifted the quilt and covered his head. Ni Weina felt more and more dissatisfied, and left the room angrily. In the next few days, the couple broke out in a cold war. However, Cao Mingwei realized his mistake and took the initiative to apologize to his wife, and Ni Weina also forgave him. Stumbles between husband and wife are common, but they decide to live their lives well. Just as they were about to leave for work, they unexpectedly met a person.
Zhang Jing? What are you doing here?
Of course, you are welcome. Oh, this is ......
Let me introduce you. This is my lover Ni Weina, this is my college classmate Zhang Jing, everyone calls her Little Pepper.
Hey, why are you still so poor?
Hello, hello.
Hi Zhang Jing, why are you here?
I'm here to deliver invitations. Liu Xiaoli has been preparing for her wedding recently, and she is very busy.
Xiaoli is getting married? Oh, yes.
I am responsible for the matter of sending invitations, and Xiaoli specially instructed that it must be handed over to you in person. Of course, I don't dare to slack off. Looking back, Xiaoli will say that I didn't do my job.
That is, we are definitely going to attend Xiaoli's wedding.
That's right. Hi, we won't forget you old schoolmate. Why did you have a wedding, why didn't you tell us, or Xiaoli told me, what is your home address?
We don't have to do trouble, we chose to travel to get married, which is more convenient.
I know, your house is not cheap, right?
It's kind of improvised. You have a good fate, I heard that your daughter-in-law is a strong woman, so you don't have to worry about it.
Hearing this, Cao Mingwei was a little embarrassed, after all, he knew that everything he had now was obtained by his wife.
That night, the couple was getting ready to go to bed, and Cao Mingwei asked if he wanted to take his wife to the wedding. But no one expected that when she heard this, Ni Weina's face showed a touch of dissatisfaction.
I didn't go, didn't you see the eyes of your classmates?
What looks? What's wrong?
It's not that I think I'm old.
It's not like that, I think you have a mature temperament, and the yellow-haired girl can't compare.
Mature temperament? It's also a senior beauty. Don't say it so nicely, don't you think I'm old?
Don't be foolish, what do you want me to do?
Okay, okay, I'll go with you.
In the next few days, in order to attend the wedding, Ni Weina asked Cao Mingwei to accompany her to buy a few sets of clothes. However, Ni Weina, who is over 40 years old, always feels frustrated every time she changes into newly bought clothes. Gradually, she began to have the idea of backing down. On the wedding day, Ni Weina hesitated for a long time, and finally proposed to her husband that she would not go.
Mingwei, if you don't go alone, I still won't go.
What's going on? Didn't you agree to go before?
I felt a little sick.
It was fine just now, but I don't understand, why did you marry me in the first place when you care so much about other people's opinions?
That's a different situation.
I think it's the same issue. Let me ask you again, to go or not to go?
I'm not going. Go as you go! Cao Mingwei angrily picked up his clothes and went out resolutely.
Ni Weina felt a little unhappy, but she didn't change her mind. It is often said that the husband and wife are not suitable, and the marriage is destined to end in tragedy. Sure enough, the relationship between husband and wife became more and more rigid due to what happened one after another. At first, Ni Weina didn't care, but one day when the two were eating out, Cao Mingwei suddenly told her that he had resigned and would go abroad to do business in a few days. Ni Weina's face instantly became ugly after hearing this, and then she directly counted her husband.
Why didn't you discuss such a big decision with me beforehand? ”
Didn't I already discuss it with you? I've been working in that broken company for so many years, and I'm still a technician, with no promotions and no raises. Just don't do it. ”
If you give up your serious job, what project are you going to contract, do you know? You don't want to be hot-headed, you blindly follow what others say, is it so easy to do engineering? Not everyone can make money. ”
Okay, okay, you know everything. I know that since you were promoted to vice president, you have looked down on me and thought I was not worthy of you. You said it earlier, no one stopped you. ”
Cao Mingwei, what are you talking about? Have I ever blamed you for the fact that your work has been unstable for so long? I'm so busy every day, and when I get home, I have to cook for you and serve you to drink, haven't I always been like this? ”
Who wants you to serve me? You nag all day long, this doesn't work, that doesn't work. I'm telling you, I'm looking for a wife, not a nanny. ”
Cao Mingwei, you are too much! ”
The couple quarreled fiercely over this incident. However, Cao Mingwei did not change his mind. Afterwards, Cao Mingwei took 100,000 yuan and went abroad with friends to do business. At first, Ni Weina thought that her husband would come back after a while, but she didn't expect that three months had passed in a blink of an eye, and Cao Mingwei abroad had no news, and no one answered.
Ni Weina began to feel worried, afraid that something would happen to her husband. Sure enough, one day as soon as she came home, she saw her husband drinking downstairs. Seeing this scene, Ni Weina leaned over worriedly to ask what was going on. However, before she could speak, Cao Mingwei raised his head and said with a dejected expression.
I didn't make any money, and I lost it all. Now you're satisfied. I'm just a complete pauper. ”
What's the big deal? If you lose money, you can make it again, it's not a big deal. ”
Why am I so useless? ”
Mingwei, would you like to listen to me? I've been thinking a lot outside for the past three months, and I think maybe I'm managing too much. Growing up, I struggled alone, so I like to meddle and call the shots. I know it's stressing you out, and I apologize to you for that. ”
Weina, don't say it, I'm the one who should really apologize. It's me who is careful, too face-loving, and too vain. At that time, the work was not going well, and you were promoted and raised, my heart became more and more unbalanced, I wanted to use that money to make a good profit, so that you can see, but the more urgent the result, the more losses, and in the end there is nothing. ”
Ni Weina was a little unhappy with these words, but she knew that money could be earned again, and the important thing was that the two of them lived a good life. So, she comforted her husband and took him home. I have to say that after tonight's frank exchange, the couple's life has returned to calm. What's more, it didn't take long for Ni Weina to become pregnant with a child, which means that there will be new progress in their marriage. Maybe this is marriage, full of trivialities, but after going through the wind and rain, it will eventually return to peace.