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Asking women to take off their filial piety clothes sparked controversy.
1) Describe a woman dressed in linen and filial piety who is asked to wear ** clothes in a restaurant.
On January 21, a woman at a restaurant in Shanghai hosted a banquet for her relatives from outside the city, and the hotel staff asked her to take off her filial piety cloth. This matter has caused great controversy and concern on the Internet. In a **, the woman complained that when she was dining at the Shanghai Yinchu Wuning Road store, the hotel manager saw her wearing a filial piety cloth and asked her to take it off because he was worried that it would affect the mood of other guests. The woman also felt offended and disrespected.
2.Expand on the description of a grieving woman who was invited**.
A woman wears a filial piety cloth because her loved one has just died, which is a traditional funeral custom that expresses her grief and longing for her loved one. Wearing linen and filial piety is a personal expression of respect for the deceased and the living. When celebrating with family and friends, women choose to express their emotions in this way, both as a remembrance of their deceased loved ones and as a respect for the living. However, on this special occasion, the hotel staff asked her to take off her filial piety cloth. She was very dissatisfied and disgusted by this request, believing that her feelings were not respected and understood enough.
The hotel's explanation: kind reminder, not mandatory.
1) Hotel employees interpret warnings voluntarily and not compulsorily.
Regarding the matter, a staff member of the hotel admitted that there had been such a request. He said that there were many guests in the hotel at that time, and the woman's behavior of wearing linen and wearing filial piety might affect the mood of other dining guests, so they simply called ** to ask if the woman could be forced to take off her filial piety clothes. But in the end, the woman did not take off the filial piety cloth, and there was no situation of forcing the guest to take off the filial piety cloth.
2.Expand the explanation of the hotel.
The restaurant staff explained that your request was made out of kindness and respect for other customers. Restaurants are public places where everyone has the right to a pleasant and comfortable atmosphere. Since the lady was wearing a filial piety cloth, which could cause discomfort and disturbance to other customers, she was asked if she could take it off. However, the woman did not accept this request. The restaurant didn't force her to take off her filial piety scarf all the time, but just politely reminded her. In addition, the woman mentioned in ** that the manager had toasted the guests at the next table, and the hotel staff explained that it was because the guests at the next table had booked the banquet in advance, and they didn't expect the guests to bring filial piety towels, and the manager went to apologize to them.
Debate among netizens: the balance between respecting others and expressing personal feelings.
1.Netizens objected to the restaurant's practice.
The incident sparked heated discussions and controversy among netizens, some of whom considered the restaurant's practices disrespectful to filial piety. In their view, the use of filial piety cloth is a personal choice and expression that should be respected and understood by others. The restaurant's demand for the removal of filial piety is considered disrespectful to individual rights and traditional culture, and this practice should be condemned.
2.Netizens accused the unfilial son of not being in place.
However, there are also some netizens who believe that the practice of wearing mourning clothes is inappropriate because they believe that mourning clothes can cause pain and discomfort to other guests, and this behavior should not be shown in public. They believe that the expression of personal emotions should respect the feelings of others and should not cause distress or resentment to others because of personal choices. They advocate mutual understanding and respect and avoid unnecessary disputes and conflicts.
3.Summary: The importance of balancing personal emotions and respecting others.
For me, this incident highlights the importance of balancing personal emotions and respecting others. Mourning as a personal expression of grief and nostalgia for loved ones has a profound cultural connotation. However, expressing grief in public can attract attention and distress from others. Therefore, as mourners, we must take into account the appropriateness of different occasions and the feelings of others. At the same time, we should respect the personal feelings of filial piety like others, and avoid unnecessary disputes and conflicts through understanding and tolerance. It is only on the basis of personal expression and respect for others that harmonious social relations and an atmosphere of mutual understanding can be built.
Summary. Through this, we see"Filial piety"The use of social ideas caused by controversy and conflict. For those who mourn, it is an expression of personal emotion, a kind of mourning and respect for loved ones. But in public, we need to be more understanding and respectful of other people's feelings and avoid causing unnecessary controversy and conflict. Mourners should try to avoid displaying it on appropriate occasions to avoid causing displeasure to others. Others, on the other hand, should be tolerant and understanding of the inheritors of filial piety, and should not be criticized and criticized because of their personal choices. On the basis of mutual respect and mutual understanding, we can build harmonious social relations and create a cultural atmosphere of common progress.
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