"I still love my wife, and I want to continue living with her, but the conditions don't allow it".
The man who spoke in front of him was called Gui Junmin, and when he was mentioned, I believe his friends would feel strange, but although he was an ordinary person, he became the target of criticism from netizens because of "remarriage", and everyone scolded him for being "too hypocritical" and thought that his approach to his wife was "too cruel" back then.
So as an ordinary person, why did Gui Junmin stand on the cusp? What is the reason why netizens say that he is "hypocritical"? What did he do to his wife back then?
Let's take a look at the next content!
Before telling the story of Gui Junmin, we need to understand such a place, in Jinan, Shandong Province, China, there is a very special freezer, which is placed in 10 liquid nitrogen tanks, and scientific researchers come in and out here every day.
This freezer belongs to a company called "Yinfeng Biology", as one of the subordinate scientific research institutions of this company, the scientific research projects here are somewhat special, because they mainly study the "cryonics resurrection technology" that only appears in science fiction films.
What is cryonics resurrection technology? In science fiction films, through advanced science and technology, frozen bodies can be "resurrected", and these people who have been "thawed and resurrected" can also continue to start a new life in the real world.
Although as early as more than half a century ago, developed countries in the West began to study this technology, but now decades have passed, but no one has realized this technology, but science is a process of continuous development and progress, so there are still many people who believe that human beings will one day realize this technology.
Therefore, some people who have the courage to dedicate themselves to the cause of science, have expectations and fantasies about the future, and are willing to freeze their bodies after their deaths, and look forward to the day when they can be resurrected, for example, there are more than 10 "frozen people" in our country today, they are all for some reasons, they are not buried after death, but the remains are frozen.
Among the more than 10 "frozen people", there are ** ten-year-old people, and there are also children who are a few years old, of course, their families choose to freeze their bodies, and they are also looking forward to the day when they can "thaw and resurrect", and the family can be reunited.
And the male protagonist in our story, Gui Junmin, he is the family member of one of the "frozen people", his wife is called "Zhan Wenlian", and she is also the first person in our country to cryofreeze, after Zhan Wenlian's body was frozen in 2017, nearly 7 years have passed.
During this long period of time, Gui Junmin has been looking forward to the day when his wife can be "resurrected", when Zhan Wenlian was frozen, the researchers of "Yinfeng Biology" told him that it is expected that Zhan Wenlian will be "thawed and resurrected" before 2050.
Gui Junmin calculated the time, although he was already a gray-haired old man at that time, he still had the opportunity to meet his wife again, so he has always paid attention to maintaining his body, just so that one day he can fulfill his wish.
Speaking of the love story between Gui Junmin and Zhan Wenlian back then, it caused countless people to be moved, and everyone looked forward to the early success of this technology, but no one expected that Gui Junmin quickly made something difficult for everyone to accept, and it was because of this incident that he stood on the cusp. So what did Gui Junmin do?
Although Gui Junmin and Zhan Wenlian are both from Shandong, they met and fell in love in Xinjiang. It was still in 1984, when Gui Junmin's middle school came, a repeater came, this repeater grew up beautifully, and had a cheerful and generous personality, and soon got along with the classmates in the class, at that time, many male voices in the class liked this female classmate very much, but this female classmate fell in love with Gui Junmin.
Seeing this, I believe my friends have already guessed that this female classmate is the heroine of our story, Zhan Wenlian. In 1988, the two of them took the college entrance examination together, but Gui Junmin was admitted to university, but Zhan Wenlian fell off the list, at this time, Zhan Wenlian's parents were ready to leave Xinjiang and return to their hometown in Shandong because of work transfer, so she followed her parents back to her hometown, and Gui Junmin went to Shanghai to study, and the two were separated from each other ever since.
Speaking of which, communication was not developed at that time, so if the two of them wanted to keep in touch, they could only exchange letters through letters, and many people were not optimistic about their relationship at that time, after all, college students in that era were very rare, and if Gui Junmin graduated from college, he could stay in Shanghai to work, but Zhan Wenlian was just an ordinary worker, plus they were separated from each other, no matter how you look at it, it is impossible to achieve positive results.
As a result, no one expected that they would stick to the long-distance relationship and enter the palace of marriage in 1991. Because Gui Junmin did stay in Shanghai to work after graduation, Zhan Wenlian decided to move to Shanghai after marriage, but there were unforeseen circumstances, an accidental car accident took the lives of her parents, and seeing her younger brothers and sisters who were still studying at home, Zhan Wenlian finally decided not to go to Shanghai, she wanted to stay in her hometown in Jinan.
Originally, she planned to wait until her younger siblings grew up in a few years, and then she would go to Shanghai to join her husband, but Gui Junmin was reluctant to live separately from his wife for a long time, so he made a decision despite the opposition of his family, he actually gave up the "iron rice bowl" in Shanghai and returned to his hometown in Shandong.
At that time, the life of their husband and wife was very hard, although Gui Junmin was a college graduate, but he could only find a job by himself after returning to his hometown, while Zhan Wenlian continued to work as a female worker in the factory, and the two of them had to pull their younger brothers and sisters, especially after they had their own children, the burden of life became heavier.
Fortunately, the two encouraged and supported each other, and they finally survived the most difficult days in their lives, and their family life gradually improved.
Until 2015, when both of them were 50 years old, thinking that in a few years they would be able to retire and spend their old age at home, and their children had grown up at this time, so they were full of infinite expectations for life.
As a result, I didn't expect fate to be impermanent, but this year's Zhan Wenlian had an accident, she was diagnosed with cancer during the physical examination, and it was an advanced stage of lung cancer, and the doctor concluded that she could live for half a year, Zhan Wenlian couldn't accept it at all, speaking of which, she usually likes to exercise, and her health has always been good, why did she suddenly get cancer?
Gui Junmin naturally couldn't accept it, so he began to take his wife around for consultation, but he went to several hospitals, but the result was still the same. At this moment, both of them fell into deep despair, because they finally looked forward to spending their old age soon, and at that time they even thought about what they would do after retirement, why did they suddenly have to separate yin and yang?
Although the doctor said that Zhan Wenlian only had half a year left, Gui Junmin was unwilling to accept it, so he immediately asked for leave to concentrate on taking care of his wife, hoping that a miracle would happen, not to mention that Zhan Wenlian really created a miracle, more than half a year has passed in a blink of an eye, not only did she not die, but also controlled her condition, which made them happy, but they did not expect that at the end of 2016, her condition deteriorated again, and with the spread of cancer cells, Zhan Wenlian also entered the end of her life.
Gui Junmin was still unwilling to accept it, so he would go to the doctor every day to ask if there was a way to ** his wife, of course, he was disappointed every time, and he could only take care of his terminally ill wife in front of the hospital bed.
During this period of time, Gui Junmin would also look up information on the Internet, trying to find a way to save his wife, until this day, he accidentally learned that there is a "cryonics technology" abroad, which says that with the continuous progress of human science and technology, maybe in a few decades, the dead can be resurrected.
Although this seems too sci-fi, Gui Junmin is still moved, and he also has a bold decision, he wants to freeze his wife's body, and then wait for the day when this technology is mature and can bring his wife back to life.
He immediately ran over to ask the doctor if there was such a technology in China, and the doctor was also very moved when he saw that Gui Junmin was dedicated to his wife, so he told him that there was a scientific research institution in Jinan that was taking care of volunteers, and if he wanted to freeze his wife's body, he might as well try it.
In this way, Gui Jun** tied up this scientific research institution under Yinfeng Biology, and he also told his wife and son about it, because this is not something he can decide alone, and it requires the consent of the whole family.
Zhan Wenlian also looked forward to continuing to be by her husband's side, and learned that this technology might make her "resurrect" in the future, so she immediately agreed, because she also looked forward to her family reunion in the future, and their son also thought so, so after getting the consent of her family, Gui Junmin signed a contract with this scientific research institution.
On May 8, 2017, as Zhan Wenlian's life came to an end, after the researchers carried out a series of operations on her body, Zhan Wenlian's body was put into the liquid nitrogen tank.
Researchers said that it is expected to "resurrect" Zhan Wenlian before 2050, Gui Junmin calculated, he was already in his 80s at that time, but as long as he took good care of his body, he still had the opportunity to meet his wife again.
In this way, every once in a while, he would come to "visit" his wife, and he often spoke to his wife's liquid nitrogen tank alone, and the staff in the past saw it and were all moved by Gui Junmin's feelings for his wife.
However, two or three years later, Gui Junmin didn't come often, when the staff mentioned him, and discussed whether Gui Junmin had encountered something, everyone was worried that he was sick because he missed his wife, but he didn't expect that in the fourth year when Zhan Wenlian was frozen, the news of Gui Junmin's "remarriage" came.
It turned out that he remarried a woman 10 years younger than himself through the introduction of relatives, "My health is not very good now, I am just looking for an old wife to take care of me, and I can have someone by my side when I am sick", when netizens accused him of "hypocrisy", Gui Junmin also responded to his "remarriage".
He said that he still loves Zhan Wenlian in his heart, but this kind of love can't accompany him for the rest of his life, the reason is very simple, his son went to work in the field, he is getting older, he always feels lonely when he is alone, so he also wants to find another wife, and the two of them can support each other to live.
Some netizens questioned: "If Zhan Wenlian really comes back to life one day, and there are already others around Gui Junmin at that time, will he still drive away his remarried wife for the resurrected Zhan Wenlian?" ”
Regarding this question, Gui Junmin said that he would not drive away his remarried wife, and he agreed with his son that his family property would be left for this remarried wife in the future, after all, people are younger than him, and they have to spend the rest of their lives with him, and he can't treat others as "free nannies".
As for what to do if Zhan Wenlian is "resurrected" one day, it is different from when he was convinced that his wife would be resurrected, Gui Junmin said that the agreement he signed with scientific research institutions mentioned that there was no guarantee that Zhan Wenlian could be resurrected, and the validity period of this agreement was 30 years, which means that before 2047, if Zhan Wenlian could not be resurrected, then her body would need to be disposed of, so he no longer had any expectations for whether his wife could be resurrected.
Feelings are feelings, reality is reality, I don't think the two are contradictory", Gui Junmin said, speaking of which he chose to freeze his wife's body, it was indeed a little too impulsive, and at the same time, he overestimated his feelings for his wife, but as time went by, he gradually calmed down, and naturally he would make a different choice.
So, friends, what do you think about this? Do you think Zhan Wenlian will have a chance to be "resurrected" in the future? Feel free to leave a message and tell us what you think!
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