Recently, a man went to the Northeast bathhouse for a scrubbing bath, but was unexpectedly guided into the women's room by the waiter, which made everyone at the scene laugh. In fact, the man simply took the wrong hand, and due to his personal dress and voice characteristics were biased towards women, the waiter misunderstood. This makes us have to think about whether there are some management omissions and problems in the gender distinction of bathhouses.
The man received a hand with a number and was about to enter the men's bathhouse, but found that the room in his hand was full of women and he couldn't enter. He went to the service desk to consult, and the waiter saw that the numbers on his hand were all 8s, but not 6s, and thought that the man had entered the women's area. Then, the waiter guided him to the women's bathroom, and the meeting was really embarrassing. The man didn't understand what the waiter meant, but just said yes. Eventually, the two waiters shouted in unison for him to go to the women's quarter, and laughter and joy filled the air. This incident not only embarrassed the man, but also made netizens laugh.
Although the man simply took the wrong hand, his outfit and voice characteristics did make it difficult to determine his gender. The man's hairstyle is sleek and slightly feminine, and his slightly curly hair makes him look different from his regular male figure. In addition, his voice is also biased towards women, with a gentle and soft voice, without any male masculinity. Such appearance and voice characteristics not only confuse the waiter, but also make netizens confused.
The difference between a man and a woman is usually judged by their appearance and voice. Most of the time, we infer a person's gender based on their dress, hairstyle, and other physical features. However, there are also some people whose physical characteristics are not obvious, and there may be a situation of "girls and boys, boys and girls". At this time, it is difficult to accurately determine gender based on physical characteristics alone.
Men's dress is indeed somewhat fashionable, and it is different from the appearance of ordinary men. He has slightly curly hair in the middle, wears glasses, speaks with pear-tinged cheeks, and wears an off-white down jacket. This kind of dress is really difficult to distinguish between genders under normal circumstances. To add insult to injury, his voice is also skewed towards women, lacking the husky and thick sense of a man. Normally, when a boy grows up, his voice changes, but the man's voice is always in the female category. In such cases, it is difficult to accurately judge gender based on appearance and voice.
In this incident, netizens were also confused by the man's appearance and voice characteristics, and said that they had encountered a similar situation. Someone was taking a shower and came across a man with an extremely similar appearance and was startled until it was confirmed that he was male. From this accident, it can be seen that even if the man himself explained that the voice had been like this, there were still some people who were in disbelief. Netizens are caring people, they carefully observed, and even analyzed the man's Adam's apple, and found that this is the conclusive evidence for judging gender. This situation makes one sympathize with the waiters, after all, it is not easy to accurately determine a person's gender.
This incident has led to reflection on the gender distinction of bathhouses. Typically, we judge a person's gender by their daily dress and voice characteristics. However, the man incident teaches us that some people have unobvious physical and vocal features that are difficult to judge in traditional ways. Therefore, it is necessary to be more cautious and meticulous in the gender distinction of bathhouses.
Bathhouse managers can start with simple means, such as checking the gender identifier on the ID card when dealing the hand cards. By verifying the information on the ID card, it is possible to ensure that the bathhouse guests are entering the correct bathroom. Of course, due to privacy and security concerns, we do not recommend identity verification and gender checks in the bathhouse, which can cause more problems and discomfort.
Most importantly, the management of the bathhouse should strengthen training and education to improve the awareness and judgment of employees. They need to be aware that some people's physical and vocal characteristics can make it difficult for them to determine their gender, so be more cautious when dealing with similar situations. Avoid scenes that mislead guests, cause confusion, or even jokes.
Finally, for those who have a personalized attire, it is advisable to indicate their gender in advance when entering the bathhouse to avoid confusion and panic among other guests. This can reduce misunderstandings and unnecessary hassles, while also protecting your privacy and respecting the feelings of others.
In short, the management needs to be more careful and cautious in the gender distinction of bathhouses to avoid similar oolong incidents. At the same time, we also need to be more open and inclusive, respect everyone's individuality and choices, and avoid unnecessary stereotypes and discrimination against other people's genders.