In 2024, continue my 1000 film project!
Hello everyone, I'm billion! Today I recommend to you the 25th of 1000 movies: "Bernadette, Where Have You Gone".
This is a movie about women's growth, suitable for all girls in their low periods, women who have lost themselves in marriage, and mothers with children!
After a genius female architect and a genius computer scientist formed a family, this genius female architect has been silent for 20 years without any work, because she has become a stay-at-home mother.
Stay-at-home mom? A very great and somewhat aggrieved word.
In the past 20 years, this full-time mother who used to be a genius female architect, she seems to be sick, insomnia, anxiety, depression, and cynicism, she is unwilling to get along with people, she is on the verge of endless complaints and collapses, and at this time she only has her husband and daughter by her side.
A couple that was once praised by many people, what is the situation at this time? The husband is busy and does a good job, but he seems to have forgotten one thing, which is to take some time to care for his wife, who was once as good as him.
When the husband, together with his female secretary, the psychiatrist and the investigator, went to tell his wife that she was sick, a mental illness, that she had been deceived, that their family's plan to go on a trip could be carried out, but only he was going with his daughter, and her wife was going to be sent to a psychiatric hospital.
Seeing the heroine's sad, helpless, and incomprehensible expression, I, as an audience, also collapsed.
Maybe I'm too involved in watching it, and I'm substituting myself.
It's so difficult, who can understand this wife's mood at this time?
There is a clip about the heroine meeting an old friend one day, when she shared parenting with this old friend and complained about the trivialities of life, the old friend's words shocked her, he said: The answer to all your problems is to get out of work and create.
This sentence may touch many women who once worked in the workplace and later became stay-at-home mothers for the family, they used to be powerful and talented in the workplace, but after entering marriage and having children, they couldn't find themselves.
Movies come from life and are higher than life.
There may be many full-time mothers who are not as good as the heroine, they used to be just an ordinary working woman, after devoting themselves to the family, becoming a wife and mother, but they have no self at all, no friends, no hobbies, they are lost, and it is very difficult to get out or re-enter the workplace.
This reminds me of another movie, which is the Korean movie "Kim Ji-young born in 82", which I will have the opportunity to introduce next time.
However, the ending of the film "Bernadette, Where Have You Gone" is very good, the heroine is back in the workplace, doing what she likes, and it is not something that ordinary people can do, that is, building a house in Antarctica, and the family is reconciled as before.
The relationship between mother and daughter is very good, which is very enviable, and some places are worth learning from.
Mom's costume is very good-looking, worthy of being a big devil, she looks good in anything!
Film: "Bernadette, Where Have You Gone".
Douban score: 76 points.
Director: Richard Linklater.
Release date: 2019.
Starring: Cate Blanchett.
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