Jackie Chan welcomes the New Year
Recently, the results of a junior high school sister's 8 subjects have attracted widespread attention from netizens. My brother helped his sister hold a parent-teacher conference, and he was directly stunned when he got the report card, the total score of 8 subjects was only 66 points, and the scores of Chinese, mathematics, physics, biology, politics, history, geography and other subjects were less than 10 points, and only English scores of 16 points above 10 points were still relied on.
In this era of education, where scores are paramount, this achievement can be said to be quite dismal. If you change to other parents, your child will inevitably be beaten. However, in the face of his sister's predicament, this brother gave a different response: just be healthy and happy.
And said that my sister has not loved learning much since the first grade. The family does not expect her sister to become a talent by studying, and she can rely on other skills in the future.
On the report card, my sister's results in every subject made people sweat. But in fact, she has also put in a lot of efforts to improve her grades. However, the reality is cruel, and there always seems to be an insurmountable gap between hard work and achievement.
But thanks to the understanding and support of the family, the child's grades are not very important, and the most important thing is the child's health.
We all know that grades are often seen as an important measure of whether a child is good or not. The pressure on children from family and society can be imagined. But Brother Yanyi's words also reminded us that in addition to achievements, there are more important things worth cherishing.
Brother Kenichi believes that no matter what the grades are, health and happiness are the most valuable assets in life. He hopes that his sister can adjust her mentality and find her own way of growth.
For her sister's score of only 66 points in eight homework, no matter what the attitude of netizens is, the most important thing is the family's support for her sister and the family's optimism.
While a score of 66 is worrying, we can't judge a person by their score alone. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it's important to find your own shine.
Maybe my sister is not particularly outstanding in her studies, but we believe that there will be other shining points in my sister. For example, her optimistic attitude, despite the concerns of the people around her about her grades, she still treats it with a normal heart and has not been affected in the slightest.
This also shows that my sister's inner ability to resist pressure is very strong, if for others, if the grades have been low, then the mentality will definitely collapse. But my sister didn't, which is also worth learning from.
Regardless of the stage, physical and mental health is paramount. Kenichi's brother's advice reminds us not to neglect our physical and mental health in pursuit of grades.
There are too many parents around us who pay too much attention to their children's grades and ignore their children's own physical and mental health. Remember there is a sentence that says remember that there is a sentence that says health is 1, and everything else is 0.
Only with a healthy mindset can you achieve more success. Maybe my sister's grades are not ideal for others, but my sister will not be too anxious because of the pressure of studying, which will not be conducive to physical and mental growth.
In the face of difficult times, the encouragement and support of family and society is indispensable. We should give our children more care and companionship to help them get out of the trough.
For most parents, if their child's grades are not satisfactory, they will not reflect on it in the first place. Instead, blame the child for not working hard.
In fact, when a child's grades are not satisfactory, what is more needed is the support and encouragement of parents. Rather than blindly criticizing. And my sister's family. The approach is correct, they will not criticize or even give up because of their sister's poor grades. Instead, encourage the child to learn something else.
Although the results are not satisfactory, she still has a long way to go in life. Learning is not the only way to go. I hope that she can draw strength from her brother's advice and bravely face the challenges ahead.
At the same time, I also hope that every parent and educator can re-examine the importance of grades and give children a more relaxed environment for growth. Remember, it's good to be healthy and happy!
Original: Rui Ma's Parenting.
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