Son's girlfriend is in loveyears, the mother of the family mentionedRequest, I am against marriage!
My husband and I are very proud of our 28-year-old son, who has a beautiful girlfriend named Xiaoya, and they have been together for years. The first time we heard about Xiaoya was when our son was in college, and they went through a split and a reunion, but we were always curious about this girl.
In the end, we provided their home two years ago, and we are very satisfied with Xiaoya's performance and deeply admired our son's vision. This is an article dictated by Chen Meijing, edited by Liu Wei, and published exclusively on the headlines, and any infringement will be prosecuted by law.
We are also very concerned about our son's marriage, and have always encouraged him to treat others with kindness and find a suitable wife as soon as possible. Regarding their marriage plan, both their son and Xiaoya said that they are not fully prepared and need to wait for their careers to stabilize before considering it.
This year is the seventh year of Xiaoya's relationship with her son, and my son came home to tell us that our family held a grand ceremony for Xiaoya, wishing them to hug each other happily with our blessings.
We also plan to meet Xiaoya's family and discuss the marriage of our two children. On May Day, Xiaoya and her family went on a trip, and we decided to meet once on June 1st.
For this meeting, we have prepared half a month in advance, hoping to prepare the gifts in a thoughtful and appropriate manner. Recently, our family flew to Xiaoya's hometown to meet her parents.
Xiaoya's father looked gentle and softly expressed his satisfaction with his son. After we talked about the bride price, I thought everything would go smoothly, but Xiaoya's mother suddenly made three requests, and I immediately looked embarrassed.
New copywriting: Xiaoya's mother made two requests, one is that she wants us to add Xiaoya's name to her son's marriage room. The house was purchased by us 3 years ago and is part of the matrimonial property.
She wants us to do a notary, and whether Xiaoya and her son have marital problems in the future, she has half of the interest in the house. Although I was a little unhappy about this, I thought that Xiaoya and her son were married and had children, and this house should certainly belong to them.
We never thought about owning this house, and none of us would think about divorce before we got married. The second requirement is that we hope that Xiaoya's confinement can be on the woman's side, and we will pay for Xiaoya to book the best confinement center in the city.
She believes that Xiaoya is very fragile physically and mentally after giving birth, and only by their side can they rest assured. As for professional things, they should be taken care of by professionals, and the people in the confinement center will definitely know how to take care of mothers and newborns.
After many inquiries, they felt that this confinement center was the best choice. Their daughter gave birth to children from our old Zhang family and should be qualified to live in the best confinement center.
I don't think there's anything wrong with these two requests. After all, having a child is a big deal, and we feel very sorry for this daughter-in-law, and we are willing to spend some money for her so that she can get the best care.
After all, the health and happiness of our daughter-in-law is also the happiness of our family.
The third requirement is that after the confinement, the child can be picked up, but it needs to be brought by the grandparents and hired at the same time. Xiaoya's father also said that the two of them were not in good health and could not see their children.
When the confinement lady is gone, and the child is older, someone needs help. Xiaoya's mother chimed in: "Let Xiaoya take care of the child by herself, that will definitely not work." Our daughter was spoiled and raised by us since childhood, and we can't be wronged after becoming a mother. ”
As soon as I said this, I was angry, whose child was not spoiled since childhood, and our son is also an only child! After talking for a long time, I can understand that money is needed here, and money is also paid there, why can they, as children's grandparents, stay out of the matter?
The son has not yet married his daughter-in-law, and there are so many unequal treaties, so he may not be able to embarrass his son in the future. I looked embarrassed, saying that I understood what my mother meant, and we went back to discuss it, so we hurried back to the hotel.
After returning to the hotel, I directly told my son that this marriage should not be married, from the bride price to the purchase of a house and the addition of a name to the follow-up confinement center and confinement wife's expenses, their family really made the abacus clang.
No matter how much you like this child, if her family insists on these conditions, it is impossible for us to accept such a marriage. Now that I'm home and see my son silent, I'm a little shaken, should I compromise?