Hu Sanniang married Wang Ying and did not resist, after she was captured alive, Song Jiang's behavior was embarrassing
The Changshan city wall rises from the ground, the sword light and sword shadow, the momentum is magnificent. How many heroes and heroes have ascended to it, and countless girls admire and follow. However, what does this landscape have to do with the woman with a beautiful face and picturesque eyebrows in front of her?
This is what the Hereafter will be"Hu Sanniang", a woman who chooses between the freedom of habit and the yoke of unaccustomed, but ends up choosing the latter. What forces forced her to abandon her dreams and glamour and fall in love with the lifeless weight of power and wealth? This is where the wonderful life begins.
Women like Hercules were forced by their fathers to marry within the family.
The strong and resourceful Hu Sanniang went to Changshanzhai at the suggestion of relatives and friends, and soon became famous among the rebels.
However, just when Song Yi was in full swing, his life suddenly faced a major crisis. The Jin soldiers went south, and the imperial court sent a large number of officers and soldiers to besiege Changshan, which was worried about internal and external troubles.
Hu Sanniang had suffered enough and realized that things were unsustainable, but she didn't want the foundation she had built up so hard to collapse. In the end, under the influence of her family and elders, in order to survive, she was forced to marry into the family of the powerful Wang Ying and became Wang Ying's concubine.
Wang Ying became the governor of Taizhou and became the most powerful person in the world. But Hu Sanniang realized that behind the aura of worry-free food and clothing, this new home was not what he expected. Wang Ying is shrewd** and has a wide range of interests, while Hu Sanniang has a low level of education, insensitivity, narrow-mindedness, and violent tendencies towards the opposite sex.
Although Hu Sanniang gladly accepted this family affair on the surface, he was actually very reluctant, but with the cooperation of the whole family, he had to temporarily make concessions and compromises, looking for an opportunity to slowly save this marriage.
A heroine who challenges a strongman in her new home.
Hu Sanniang was originally a general on the Changshan City Wall, with a broad heart and an extraordinary temperament. When she became Wang Ying's concubine, her pride and dignity were trampled on like never before.
Wang Ying's arrogance and malice made him particularly uncomfortable. Although he can endure humiliation and burden, there are times when he can't suppress his anger, and he will argue and confront Wang Ying fiercely. Fortunately, Wang Ying still respects Hu Sanniang very much, so she doesn't take Hu Sanniang seriously.
Wang Ying's situation did not last long, and Hu Sanniang soon ordered her to be placed under house arrest and completely restricted her freedom of movement. She could only continue to endure and wait for the right moment. This time, she decided not to fight hard with Wang Ying, but to get out of trouble more carefully.
The happy heroine was reborn, and Song Jiang used kindness and respect to ** the trauma in her heart.
More than a year later, under the leadership of Song Jiang and others, the ruins of Changshan revolted again, evaded the pursuit and got back together. When they heard the bad news that Hu Sanniang was forced to marry into a wealthy family, they decided to do everything they could to rescue the brave general.
Song Jiang's five sons and others infiltrated Taizhou Mansion and finally rescued Hu Xiang. Wang Ying was furious when he heard the news and immediately sent troops to chase after him. After several unsuccessful encounters, the captured Hu Sanniang was finally sent back to Song Jiang's headquarters.
Hu Sanniang thought that he would be warmly welcomed by his former comrades-in-arms, after all, he was forced to take refuge in a more powerful person. But the crowd was surprisingly indifferent, and some even showed contempt and anger.
Hu Sanniang was in a hurry because she didn't understand what she had done wrong. At this time, Song Jiang walked up to him and explained in a gentle tone.
Soon after defecting to Wang Ying, Hu Sanniang's father died. According to tradition, all the family property in his name belongs to Wang Ying. Thinking that her father's hard-earned property was taken away by a tyrant, Hu Sanniang was filled with grief and indignation, and couldn't help crying.
Song Jiang comforted her and said"I understand your hardship, you have always loved Changshan deeply and don't want to marry Wang Ying. You don't blame yourself for your father's decision. A woman like you naturally wants to live happily ever after with her beloved. Wang Ying's experience is certainly deserved, but we will not blame you. You are brave enough and strong enough, I believe that the good men of Changshan will understand your difficulties and will soon forgive you. "
Song Jiang's words were like a clear spring, moistening Hu Sanniang's injured heart, and she finally stopped complaining about fate and cheered up again.
Song Jiang is empathetic, gives the heroine a new life, and facilitates her reconciliation with the former gang.
After Song Jiang's careful enlightenment, Hu Sanniang's inner pain was gradually reversed and **. He also realized that he should not treat others as enemies, but put himself in their shoes. As a result, he began to take the initiative to build good relationships with people and no longer complained about other people's incomprehension.
Song Jiang played the role of mediator. He praised Hu Sanniang's talent and courage many times, and allowed him to express his opinions in the court, so that people began to change their views on Hu Sanniang and gradually opened their hearts to accept him.
Song Jiang also sent text messages to Hu Sanniang's old friends, telling them about Hu Sanniang's difficult journey over the years, and said that he would definitely send him back to Changshan Cottage for reunion. Soon, these old friends came in person, Hu Sanniang hugged his head and cried, the two sides turned enemies into friends, Hu Sanniang finally disarmed and surrendered, and reintegrated into the collective.
Song Jiang's good deeds finally repaired the rift between Hu Sanniang and the others, allowing her to regain her long-lost strength and hope, and become a fearless female god of war. Now, she is determined to dedicate this reborn force to the battles ahead.
Song Jiang showed a superb literary level, and his method of breaking the siege contained profound enlightenment.
In this incident, Song Jiang showed a very wise way of handling it. At the beginning, Hu Sanniang still regarded others as enemies, stubborn, and her strong nature could easily lead to serious conflicts.
However, instead of reprimanding him harshly, Song Jiang first eliminated his timidity through reasonable communication, and then slowly comforted him and won his trust. After that, he gave her enough space and leeway, so that she felt worth and respected.
In the end, Song Jiang also deliberately facilitated the reconciliation between Hu Sanniang and her main friend. This caring and humane treatment undoubtedly reflects his extraordinary wisdom and strength in dealing with people.
What's even more shocking is that Song Jiang did not treat Hu Sanniang as a tool or subject, but respected her subjectivity, protected her rights and interests, and let her integrate into the collective. This deep emotional interaction reflects Song Jiang's deep understanding of human nature.
Song Jiang's kindness, rationality, and respect for the world are valuable lessons on how to deal with complex interpersonal relationships
We also need to put ourselves in the shoes of others, and resolve conflicts through peaceful communication. Only in this way can we establish harmonious and stable social relations and realize real mutual trust and mutual assistance between people.
After being reborn, what changes and legends will happen to Hu Sanniang's life? This has become an eternal topic of thought and discussion for future generations. What we need to remember now is that it was Song Jiang's kindness and wisdom that ignited the spark that had been extinguished in his heart for a long time, allowing him to find his way in the fog and start again.
Maybe everyone will face dilemmas and choices at some point. We also need a Song Jiang-style guide to help us find our long-lost selves and muster up the courage to move on. But can we become Song Jiang ourselves?