After many children enter the rebellious period, they always refuse to communicate with their parents, thinking that they are now grown up and do not need to follow their parents' opinions, and can do the work they want to do, and they don't need to listen to their parents' nagging. As everyone knows, parents think that the child's physical and mental development is immature, and do not agree with the child to do some work independently, which conflicts with their own children, causing the child's rebellious thoughts.
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How to communicate with a girl during the rebellious period of 13
1. Live in peace.
Get along with your 13-year-old daughter on an equal footing, don't put on a stand with your parents: when communicating with your daughter, you should be gentle, don't hold your parents' stand, and don't show love and hate. This negative emotion from the strong pressure of mom and dad is very simple to infect the girl and affect the daughter's mental state. Therefore, a harmonious parent-child relationship comes from the mentality of parents, to understand their children, and not to put too much pressure on children.
2. Communicate more.
Learn to communicate patiently with 13-year-old children, girls' emotions are often delicate and sensitive, and sometimes the parents' careless words may be wrong in the child's ears. Communication itself is a bridge, strengthening the communication between parents and children, can prevent many conflicts in life, and in terms of communication, parents should weigh how to be more suitable for girls in the rebellious period, to find the right way.
3. Give children understanding and tolerance.
Adolescent girls are rebellious, often reflected more significant and intense, when you find that the child is rebellious, the child expects you to understand her, and then accommodate her, at this time, parents do not deny the child's behavior, let alone the child, many parents who are angry may not be able to hold back their hands for a while, but they don't know, if you do it, the child will become more and more rebellious. Everyone needs self-esteem, and children are no exception.
4. Transposition consideration.
Consider the problem from the perspective of the attitude of a 13-year-old child, and be able to calm down the rebellious period, some of the child's sensitive mental characteristics, and some of the rebellious mental conditions of the child in the rebellious period. After that, they may be willing to tell you some interesting work and even little secrets buried in their hearts. On the contrary, they will only avoid you, and the child will not tell you anything big or small, and even hide it from you at the first time, creating a separation from his parents.
The embodiment of the child's rebellious period.
1. Puppy love behavior. Precocious love is a very common phenomenon in adolescence, and it is also a heart disease of parents, children too early love not only affects the results, but also affects the child's mind, at this time parents do not handle it properly will have unexpected results.
2. Don't communicate with your parents. Children in the adolescent rebellious period, they are very irritable in their minds, especially in the face of their parents, no matter what work they look at, it is not that they do not understand the hard work and dedication of their parents, but they expect to maintain an equal posture with their parents.