Wen Changjing
CCTV's Lantern Festival Gala was festive and lively as usual, and when Nigmaiti's face appeared in front of the screen again, some viewers sweated for him, and some couldn't help but start laughing again, after all, the stalk of the Spring Festival Gala has been talked about by everyone for a long time.
And Nigmat is full of confidence this time"Let me introduce myself, I am the legendary Nigmaiti. Didn't match! ”
"Q and A have to be together, because our lives are half questions and half answers. ”
"Audience friends, I'm finally right! ”
"Throw away your troubles and leave your luck behind! ”
This time, there is no need to be Liu Qian's deputy, Xiao Ni held two cards in his hand and showed off a magic trick in person, and finally drew a perfect end to this stalk. Xiao Ni's smiling expression was also frozen, and there was a wonderful contrast with the expression of the Spring Festival Gala.
The host of CCTV is full of talents, there are too many excellent people, I am not impressed by Nigmaiti, I only remember that his face appeared in many variety shows and galas. However, this year's Spring Festival Gala did not make any mistakes on the cards, but I remember him deeply. That night, when he rushed to the hot search on the Internet, I was stunned by his panicked and pitiful expression.
Throughout the Spring Festival, Nigmat became the main talking point and joke when people talked about the Spring Festival Gala, people laughed at his mistakes, laughed at his expression, of course, not ridicule, not blame, but good-natured laughter, laughing at his truth and cuteness. Nigmat can be said to be unintentionally inserting willows into the willows, because of his own mistake, he has become the hottest person in this year's Spring Festival Gala, and he has become his own when he makes mistakesBonus points, and also brought more to the people of the whole countryJoy
This mistake by Xiao Ni reminds me of thisMaking mistakes isn't always a bad thing, and sometimes, making mistakes is an opportunity to be more competitive.
CCTV's annual Spring Festival Gala is the program with the highest audience attention and the highest ratings, and the TV station has invested a lot of money, material resources and manpower, and has been preparing for a long time, and I don't know how many times the rehearsal has been, and it is certainly one of the goals of the program organizers to make no mistakes. Nigmaiti's mistake this time was something that he and the program team did not expect, so he had Nigmaiti's expression of fear and nervousness after he found out that his cards were not matched. But the audience happily accepted it.
Is it because the audience is tolerant and soft-hearted? I don't think so, but the audiencePrefer authenticity and liveliness.
With the ability and level of CCTV, it is not difficult to make a beautiful stage and passionate and humorous hosting words, and the audience is also accustomed to it, no matter how exquisite the stage presentation is, in the eyes of the audience, it is inevitably too regular, rigid and mechanical, so every year the audience will complain that the program is dull and has no new ideas.
And the sudden mistake, the appearance of a shortcoming and a flaw, but let everyone feel the truth, that is the way life is. Because all perfection is rehearsed and prepared, the appearance of small mistakes breaks the deliberateness and regularity, and Xiao Ni's expression shows his more real side, rather than the usual one"Moderator".The kind of presentation of symbols or masks. This reality is therefore more moving and powerful.
There is no such thing as a perfect person, and if a person is too perfect in some way, it is often suspicious. Mr. Lu Xun said such a sentence when talking about "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" in "China's ** History": "I want to show Liu Bei's strength and hypocrisy, and Zhuge Liang's wisdom is close to the demon." It means, "I originally wanted to show that Liu Bei was a sincere elder, but it looked very fake, and Zhuge Liang was resourceful like a monster."
In the Cultural Revolution, whether it was a model drama or **, the protagonists in it were all the same"Gao Daquan".The impression that this perfection leaves on people isFalse, so abandoned and forgotten by the times.
In a conversation between Wang Anyi and Yu Hua in March last year, when the moderator asked what impact AI would have on writers, Wang replied: "I doubt that AI can really write. Life doesn't play cards according to common sense. Yu Hua went on to say: "Life is not played according to common sense, this is the only way for writers to defeat AI."
According to his understanding, if AI wants to write **, it can probably only write a mediocre **. Because in literature, strengths and weaknesses coexist, and if the shortcomings are changed, the advantages are gone. AI is likely to have no disadvantages when it has no shortcomings, and vice versa it has no advantages. Many great literary works actually have failures. The human brain will always make mistakes, but this is also the most valuable part of the human brain. Because it isCards are played out of common sense.
I have a friend who works in sales, he doesn't have the ability to speak well, let alone warm and sweet, he is not good at talking, but his performance is very good, and he is often among the best in the team.
I was amazed at his results, because the products are all the same, and the services provided are all similar, why can he do a good job? After asking several times, he revealed the secret. He saidI often make small mistakes that get more customers.
This aroused my curiosity even more, and when I asked further, he said that it was fromAn unintentional mistake.
Once he went to visit a client, he was in a hurry to go out, he wore two different shoes on his feet, and he accidentally touched his head by the door after entering the door, and he grinned in pain. These two mistakes made him feel a little ashamed and embarrassed for himself.
But unexpectedly, his mistakes made the customer have a good impression of him, feeling that he was a big grin, not so scheming, not too shrewd and calculating, and was touched by the door of his own company, and would have some apologies to him, so the business was negotiated very smoothly and was quickly closed.
After that, he had experience, and sometimes, he would deliberately make some small mistakes, show some embarrassment, and put the customer's psychology at a high level. On the contrary, the customer is less wary of him and more close. That's the secret of his success.
I was very moved when I heard it, and making mistakes can really bring us opportunities. Think about it, sometimes that's the case, in the business field, there is no shortage of shrewd people and people who can speak, but consumers are often wary of such people, afraid that the other party will come to dig their wallets. And for a person who makes a small mistake, it is easier to accept and more willing to deal with him. It also reminds me of an Internet buzzword:What bad eyes can a kitten have?
Of course, this example is not suitable for all business situations. But we can get a little inspirationIt's not terrible to make mistakes, if you take advantage of it, it's an opportunity, and if you don't take advantage of it, it's just a mistake.
Nigmat and CCTV also maximized his mistakes and continuedDidn't match! This stalk, during the Spring Festival, continued to practice, and at the Lantern Festival party, with a more interesting magic show, won a full house, and achieved another wonderful program.
This principle is also applied to our lives and to our parent-child education. You don't have to be perfect, you don't have to be afraid of making mistakes, and you don't have to criticize your children for making mistakes. Making mistakes is the norm, and not making mistakes at all is weird.
If a person or a work has no shortcomings, it will have no advantages and characteristics, and it will lose its power to move people. Accept mistakes, allow themOnly then can we maintain the true and vivid side, and only then can we have the opportunity to take mistakes seriously and improve ourselves.
Everyone makes mistakes, but learning how to learn, let go, and move forward is essential to our mental health and well-being.
On another level, making a mistake is not necessarily a bad thing, it opens up anotherPerspective, brought a new oneOpportunity。Our ancients have long discovered the philosophy and wisdom in it"How can I know if I am blessed?”
In the face of mistakes, in the face of mistakes, sometimes it is necessary to have the thinking and mentality of Seon. In this way, we will live lessAnnoyancewithTangled, moreOpen-mindedwithHappy
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