A provincial-level aunt once told me: "When girls grow up, they often encounter feelings of inferiority, especially when facing big scenes, they are easy to feel timid and cowering. But what they don't realize is that those who are able to stand calm in various situations have reached such a state through constant practice and practice. ”
Most people are not born with extraordinary intelligence or talent. In fact, we have mastered various skills through continuous practice and practice.
For example, a person who grew up in a small town may not be familiar with the city's subway system, but a person who has lived in Beijing for ten years can master every line of the subway proficiently.
When you are often in high-end situations, you gradually become familiar with the rules there. When you meet more people, you learn how to communicate with people, how to speak.
As a result, people will think that you have seen the world, that your manners have become elegant, that your emotional intelligence is high, and that you can speak.
When you fall in love more times, you will master those skills between men and women, and you will become what people call a master of love.
When you are faced with an unfamiliar environment, you can generously ask, "I haven't tried, can you help me?" "Instead of being afraid of making mistakes.
In front of the strong, maintain a humble attitude, and others will look up to you and think that your frankness is worthy of respect.
As long as a person has the opportunity to try and make mistakes, then the chances of success will increase greatly. The key is to have the courage to try, even if you may make mistakes.
Many people begin to question themselves, wondering if they are not as smart as others, whether they have better conditions, which is the wrong way of thinking.
When you have sorted out the true way of life, you will no longer blame yourself, and your low self-esteem will no longer exist.
We need to exercise our ability to act immediately and make the most of the cognition of the moment.
Don't dwell on the past, don't dwell on the future, focus on the present.
Of course, we need time to dream, plan and set goals. But once we're ready, we need to learn to keep our feet on the ground and focus on the actions in front of us.
Remember: those who are afraid of failure will never succeed, and those who dare not go on stage will always be the audience!