Escaping graduate school entrance examination has become a trend, and parents regret that they would rather not let their children go to graduate school!
Parents' regrets: I knew this was the case, why bother in the first place?
When I entered college, four years seemed like a long enough time to make people feel inert and follow a daily routine. However, when I graduated, I suddenly found that four years passed like a white horse, and I passed in a blink of an eye, but my youth was vivid.
Graduation is both an end and a new beginning. After graduating from university, we become adults with the ability to think independently and face real-world problems. However, when it comes to choosing our future, we face a variety of challenges: finding a job, taking the civil service exam, or continuing our studies. However, the reality is worrying: the employment situation is becoming increasingly difficult, and the number of vacancies in some professional civil servants is almost zero. As a result, more and more graduates are choosing to pursue postgraduate studies, and the number of people taking the exam is increasing year by year.
About one-third of these graduates choose to pursue postgraduate studies. Some of them have their own goals and objectives, while others are pure"Escapers"。A couple was full of remorse when they told about the changes in their family after their son went to graduate school, and even said:"If I knew this, I might as well not let my son go to graduate school. Graduate school is a good thing, but why should parents be so worried?
The couple's son, like many of his colleagues, chose to pursue graduate school after graduation. However, he didn't have a clear reason, mainly because he was confused and didn't know what to do after graduation, so he wanted to go to graduate school first and then think about his future job. A graduate degree does have some advantages over an undergraduate degree. However, after failing the exam in the first year, he did not give up and continued to prepare and take the exam for several years in a row, but failed again and again. In the past few years, my son has no job, and his economy is supported by his parents.
The couple said that as an ordinary family, their son took the exam in this way, which caused them increasing pressure. However, their son does not seem to give up, but continues to persevere. If they had known that this would happen, they would have preferred that their son would not have gone to college. Graduation is an upward choice, but know how to change. Nowadays, some students are fighting"Graduate school"flag"Gnaw the old", making the family miserable. Maybe that's not what they intended, but we need to take stock of the situation. After a series of failures, perhaps they should consider giving up.
It is not easy to make money, and youth is not eternal. Not choosing a job after going to graduate school can not only reduce the burden on your parents, but also accumulate experience in advance. It is not advisable to blindly take the postgraduate examination"Escapism"There is no point in going to graduate school. It is necessary to have a clear plan before the graduate school entrance examination, otherwise it will be difficult to succeed.
As parents, they mostly support their children's graduate studies. However, graduate programs are not the only option, but rather an exit path after college. It is important to be flexible, to be aware of one's own abilities and family situation. Whether or not it is worth continuing to study after failing an exam varies from person to person.
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