I know a woman born in '87 who came to me after learning that her husband was unfaithful.
I thought she would come to me for comfort and confiding, but unexpectedly, she seemed unusually calm.
Her purpose is very clear, that is, the division of property after the divorce with me, and how to maximize her property rights.
She even considered how her husband could compensate her in order to protect her property rights without divorce.
This calm attitude towards money is in stark contrast to how she behaved when she was younger.
At that time, she cried on the street after falling out of love, and she was very emotional.
Now in the face of divorce, she does not seem to be affected by too much emotion, but focuses on how to protect her financial interests.
This change has made me deeply realize that as people grow older, they tend to become more rational and realistic when facing marital problems.
I feel that marriage is not only a union based on feelings, but also an economic contract and partnership.
In order to maintain the stability of the marriage, both parties need to have the spirit of contract and have equal or similar economic foundations and values.
In today's society, many marriages do not seem to be based purely on feelings, but on realistic considerations and trade-offs of interests.
In fact, it is a very realistic view that the relationship of interest maintained by feelings is usually not as stable as that of feelings based on interests.
In most couples and couple relationships, although they appear to be partners living together.
But there is also a Chinese proverb: "Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes."
This quote reveals the fact that if the interests of a couple or couple are not closely connected, and if they encounter difficulties, they are likely to become suspicious and eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
Therefore, the best interests are essential for maintaining a stable marital relationship.
Because of this, when a marriage is betrayed, people may feel more about their interests being violated than emotionally distressed.
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As people grow older and gain experience, they learn how to better protect their interests.
In the face of similar emotional setbacks, they are able to analyze the situation more calmly and take action, thus reducing their losses.
But this transformation does not mean that people have become ruthless, but rather that they have grown up learning how to balance and protect their rights and interests in real life.