Controversy Project
I used to see all kinds of parents complaining on the Internet that their children were ignorant and disobedient. Children complain that their parents put too much pressure on them, too little freedom, always self-touched, etc., I am also a person who loves to join in the fun, every time I see this kind of ** or post, I always can't help but want to write hard to express my opinions, as a result, I opened the comments and found that the bottom was also noisy, some empathized, some opposed, and some talked and scolded, anyway, the comments are quite interesting, so the question is, are parents and children natural enemies? Why is there always friction between them?
In fact, not necessarily, I will also brush up on the ** between parents and children who get along very well, they are either funny, or warm, or dancing together to teach others to learn, with such a tacit understanding, every time I see this, I can't help but sigh that this is what a family should be, so how can we become such a family?
First of all, we need to respect each other. It is necessary to respect the "thinking of the times" of the elderly, as well as the ideas and personalities of young people, so as to achieve mutual appreciation without interference.
Secondly, we need to communicate more and understand more. If there is any problem, spread it out and say don't hold it in your heart.
Again, understand and be considerate of each other. Think more from each other's point of view and be considerate of each other, so that you can get along.
Finally, I would like to say that parents and children have never been natural enemies, but we don't know how to love each other yet, take our time, and it will get better and better.