In life, you often hear that parents are short, and the most talked about is marriage, which has happy and unhappy, according toThe iceberg principleWe do the common nature which is not the beautiful kind.
House flowers do not have the scent of wild flowers".This sentence appears like a proverb in all kinds of gaps in reality, and it reflects all kinds of family problems, many men get married and their wives have a weakened relationship, and then cheat on such a man is not worth cherishing.
Ms. Tong and her husband have been married for seven or eight years, and during this time, the two have gone from loving each other at the beginning to being silent and cold later, and only the two know that the relationship is slowly disappearing.
"I know that in the last few years, my husband has raised a lover outside behind her back, and I think that the secrecy is in place, but in fact, she knows it clearly, but I haven't exposed it, and I can't say it when I look at the two children. ”Parents are often the old ones in marriage, and Ms. Tong wanted to relax for a few more years when she was young, and so on when she got married, she couldn't bear the nagging and urging of her parents, and finally found him through a blind date.
"When we first met, I thought he was ordinary-looking and honest, and he agreed to a relationship without any bending, and we got married after five months of knowing each other."Ms. Tong, who entered the marriage hall, was not so happy and not disgusted, she wanted to live a well-behaved life, living a dotted life every day, cooking and taking care of the baby, while her husband earned money and then stayed outside and rarely went home, maybe in his eyes, the family also restrained him.
"My wife is very conservative, she always stays at home after getting married, and she doesn't want to go out, except for taking care of the children, she is busy with other things, to be honest, this feeling is almost boring, and then there is that after giving birth to Dabao Erbao, she feels fatter, and she has not grown in my aesthetics".
In the eyes of Ms. Tong's husband, when he first got married, his wife would also dress up and take it out, but now he will quarrel with him every day to let him do housework and be busy, and he doesn't want to go home after a long time.
Later, he met a girl who worked in a nail salon, four or five years younger than him, and was also interesting to talk to, so part of his salary was spent on going out to dinner with this girl.
"I'm scared of being with my lover, I'm afraid of being discovered by my wife, bumped into by acquaintances, and maintaining lies, I feel a lot more tired, but my heart is very exciting, and I'm quite excited.
Ms. Tong found out her husband's little secret and kept silent. "I woke up in the middle of the night and wanted to go to the toilet, the light was too bright and I wanted to use the light of the mobile phone, I took the wrong phone in a hurry, and when I got to the toilet, I noticed that I saw a piece of numb words on the bright screen, and I knew everything when I opened it and looked at those chat records. ”The lady has the habit of writing a diary, and finally spits out all the words in her heart, and for the sake of the child, she still endures that nothing happened, hoping that her husband will change his mind when he has had enough.
"Recently, my wife was hospitalized, I cooked at home, and then took to the hospital, while taking care of the children, I saw her diary, on which I saw her tolerance and a lot of heartfelt words, I felt empty in my heart, understood something. ”Looking at Dabao Erbao, I deleted the connection with my little lover and understood that my family was the only one.