30 million singles saved? The state has issued three major policies to get rid of orders, which is just around the corner
For seven years, there has been an imbalance between men and women in China.
According to the data, there are 688.44 million women in the country, of which 723.34 million are men, a difference of 33.9 million between men and women.
In other words, some men will never be able to marry a daughter-in-law in their lifetime. There are actually many reasons for the current phenomenon of difficult marriage, and I think there are three main aspects.
The first reason is that the pressure on the economy is increasing, with the development of the times, the survival pressure of young people is increasing, and the daily expenses alone are enough to make many people have a headache, not to mention preparing a house for them and preparing them for tuition.
The second reason is that the cost of the bride price is too high. I have met several couples, just because of the issue of the bride price, because of the bride price, the parents of the two people quarreled.
It had an even greater impact on the feelings of the two young men.
The third reason is that people's choices are becoming more and more diverse. Nowadays, some young people always feel that marriage is a burden;
They all live for themselves, but in their opinion, such a sacrifice is nothing, they just want to enjoy the sweetness of love, but they can't bear the pain between two people.
In order to solve the problem of marital difficulties, three major measures have been taken.
1. Crack down on sky-high dowries.
In some places, "sky-high bride price" has always been a long-standing problem, and it is also a common concern of all sectors of society.
However, this is not unreasonable, in some areas, the dowry is as high as 100,000 to 200,000, which is far beyond the ability of ordinary people.
Sometimes, even if the man's parents spend a lot of money to make up the dowry, it may cause problems in the already small family.
Therefore, China should define and regulate the scope and limits of the dowry. Use legal methods to control the amount of dowry and avoid the appearance of dowry.
2. Strictly control housing** to reduce the economic pressure on young people.
As mentioned earlier, high ** will aggravate the survival pressure of young people, and we propose to adhere to the "housing not speculation", gradually cool the property market, and curb the rapid growth of housing prices.
In addition, public rental housing and social housing are also provided for those families who do not have a house, so that their financial burden is eased, so that they have their own house, so that they have more time for social activities, so that they can focus more on their own life instead of being swayed by the house.
3. Children's livelihood and tuition fees make young people have the burden of marriage.
It is not for nothing that many people refer to children as "gold-swallowing beasts", because from the birth of a baby, everything costs money, especially children's school fees.
Today's young people can't even manage their own affairs, and they dare to marry a wife and have children.
Therefore, in order to prevent too much involution in the field of education, China is vigorously promoting educational reform and promoting educational equality.
Establish a sound social security system to make young people feel more secure and reduce the financial pressure caused by marriage.
At the same time, it is also necessary to strengthen education and propaganda among young people, advocate a positive concept of marriage, and guide young people to establish a scientific outlook on marriage and realize that marriage has a positive impact on individuals and society.
Enterprises and society should adopt more flexible working hours and leave to take care of children, etc., to help young people manage the relationship between career and family, and reduce obstacles to marriage.
Nowadays, not only in big cities, but also in rural areas, it is not uncommon for people in their 30s to have no family, and economic pressure is indeed a big constraint, so we need to have a sense of urgency, because this is the most important thing in everyone's life.
As long as we work together, there will be no more "singles".