Hello dear friends! Recently I wanted to talk to you about the people we often call "quiet". You may have heard the saying, "People who are too introverted will never please them; It's not easy to make friends; Over time, it may leave people with the impression of being withdrawn and difficult to get along with." So, quietness has become a shortcoming in our usual mouths? Actually, it's not, maybe it's a good thing. That's what I want to share with you today – why we shouldn't underestimate those who like to be quiet. I hope that after listening to it, you will have a better understanding and acceptance of this style.
First of all, don't forget that introversion has its charm, too. It is said that many outstanding thinkers, artists, and even scientists and inventors have come out of quiet, stability, and self-discipline. As in Speak Soft: The Power of Introversion, "many good ideas, arts, and inventions come from quiet individuals who know how to listen to their inner thoughts and find endless riches in that sea of tranquility." You think, if a person is not calm enough to dig deep into his inner thoughts, it is difficult to imagine how great he will be.
In addition, those who are quieter on weekdays are actually more tolerant of loneliness than the average person. For example, they will spend more time reflecting on themselves and quietly understanding the true meaning of life. The loneliness that many people can't bear is comparable to the time they spend alone. For example, some people pursue success, always busy showing their heads on various occasions, singing and dancing, and after a short period of excitement, they are left with exhaustion. This comparison immediately makes a difference.
Of course, not everyone is keen on being a quiet beautiful man (or beauty). Some people just like to weave through the crowd and show off their style to the world. Such people, although they may also be prosperous, often lack deep precipitation and are easy to be surpassed by latecomers. As the old saying of the ancestors - "still water flows deep", only by quieting down can we deeply tap our potential.
So, how can you be a quiet but energetic person? In fact, it is very simple, just give yourself some time alone at the right time, and let yourself slowly immerse yourself in the ocean of thinking. It's like the book "Quiet: The Power of Introverts". Sometimes, when we encounter difficulties, we feel helpless, things only get worse and worse, and our mood becomes more and more anxious. At this time, we might as well learn from those who are silent, and maybe we can find a way to solve the problem.
To prove what I'm saying, let's look at a little fable. I'm sure you've heard the story of your father's pocket watch falling into a grocery in the corner, and you can't find it, but instead messes up the whole house. However, suddenly, the child reminded him that the pocket watch was next to the cabinet, and it turned out that he was in such a hurry to find it that he ignored the subtle sound of the pocket watch. It can be seen that quiet people may seem a bit muna, but they are often delicate, good at deep thinking, and can easily see the core of the problem. On the other hand, those who can't bear to be silent for a moment, although they are lively on the surface, but in fact they are not stable in their hearts, and they can't figure out the problem. Therefore, as long as you set yourself a period of time to think alone, many problems can be solved.
Finally, I would like to tell you a secret, a secret that only those who have a quiet heart can grasp - the persistent pursuit of goals. According to a study by scholars at Harvard University, those who appear to be quiet in the workplace are actually qualified for higher-level management roles and achieve impressive results. Even celebrities such as Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft, tend to be reserved and quiet. It can be seen that "quiet" does not mean taciturn, on the contrary, it happens to be a precious part of an introverted personality.
Well, that's all for today's sharing. Again, I want to stress that being quiet is not the same as being silent, and it is not a reason to deny introverts. I hope that no matter what kind of environment you are in, you can face challenges with a calm mind and create your own wonderful story with strong inner energy, thank you!