In a few days, we will usher in the traditional festival of our countryChinese New YearThe Spring Festival is extremely important in the minds of every Chinese.
Young people who are struggling far away from home will definitely rush back to their hometowns before the Spring Festival, and the time of reunion with their families is the mostHappy times
The elders are also happy to see their families together, and as long as the children are there, the house is full of laughter.
And the children's hope for the Spring Festival is relatively pure, because they can receive New Year's red envelopes from their elders.
But when giving red envelopes, you should also pay attention to the amount of red envelopes to bypass these numbers, because these numbers are really unlucky.
When giving red envelopes to the dolls, give them according to these three universal numbers, and they will definitely not offend people.
China has had the custom of keeping the New Year since ancient times, and on the night of Chinese New Year's Eve, the elderly in the family will beKeep the year, implying that this time passes in a hurry, and we must cherish every moment we have at the moment.
There is also a saying that it is said that in ancient China"Nian" is a fierce beast with long sharp horns, extremely fierce.
It lives at the bottom of the sea all year round, and every year on Chinese New Year's Eve, it will come out to harm innocent people, and people are extremely afraid of it.
Until one day, a white-haired old man came to the village, and the white-haired old man said that as long as he stayed in the village for one night, he would be fineExorcise the "year" beast.
In the blink of an eye, it was Chinese New Year's Eve, and the people in the village still hid in the mountains as usual, while the white-haired old man stayed in the village by himself.
When the "year" beast entered the village, it was calledThe sound of crackling firecrackersTrembling with fright, at this time, an old man in a red robe laughed, and the "Nian" beast was frightened and fled in a hurry.
When the villagers returned to the village the next day and found that the village had not been destroyed at all, they realized that the white-haired old man who was reluctant to leave was a fairy who had come to drive away the "Nian" beast.
Later, every year on Chinese New Year's Eve, it wouldSticking couplets, setting off firecrackers, lighting candles in every house, and keeping a New Year's mark in the house.
Thousands of years have been handed down, which has formed our New Year's customs, and the New Year is a happy thing, visiting relatives and friends, talking and laughing is very happy.
It is also a custom handed down from ancient times in China to give children New Year's money, which is a New Year's gift from the elders to the children, implying that the children can grow up healthy and happy in the new year.
Legend has it that there is also a small monster named "Zhen", who will run out to harm children on Chinese New Year's Eve.
And adults, in order not to hurt their children, will put itThe copper coin on his body is placed next to the childto pray for the protection of children from harm.
Hence the origin of the New Year's custom of "pressing money", although it is only an ancient legend, but it still representsThe elders' blessings and love for their children.
So when giving red envelopes for New Year's money, there are some precautions that the elders need to keep in mind, otherwise they will offend people.
First of allHomophonic numbers, in the perception of Chinese, it is relatively taboo.
For example, the number 3, pronounced san, is the same as san, and it will be thought that it is necessary to disperse with it, although you may have all good intentions, but what others think, we have no control.
In addition, 3 also represents the limit in Chinese culture, and many people like to use three to say things, including the frequent saying "I count to 3, if you don't be careful, you will stop when you say 3."
There is another aspect".Lifetime.
Second, two lives. Three, three begets all things", when it reaches three, it represents infinity.
There is also the number 4 is also more taboo, needless to say, many business places, room numbers will not have this number, even hospitals, everyone avoids this number.
The homonym of 4 dies at the same time, which is very unlucky in the eyes of Chinese, and some business people avoid this number.
Therefore, on any happy event, there can be no "4" figure, in order to follow people's understanding, so the amount of red envelopes about this number must not be included, it will be considered to be thereCursemeaning.
The number 7 is also unpopular, because homonym is the same sound as "qi", and qi is considered angry.
What the Chinese value is:Harmony makes money, if you get angry, your fortune will run away, so the number 7 will be associated with weak financial luck, and it is also a number that Chinese avoid.
So the same reasoning, there's about numbersSince the red envelope is to make the child feel happy, the precautions for these numbers should be paid attention to.
Someone may askQuestioningThe voice of the child** understands these ways, how can there be such a thing as a red envelope!
It would be a big mistake to think this way, we live in this world, and what we value most is thatRelationships between peopleChildren don't understand, but parents must know.
If you affect the mood of others because of your own momentary mistakes, then you have to compensate for the loss, and besides, the red envelope is also done with good intentions, if it is self-defeating, it will cause a bad impact.
In addition, when wrapping red envelopes, it should not be an odd amount, because Chinese are "mourning for a single, happy for a double", only in the funeral to give a singular number is appropriate, in other cases most of the even number, after allGood things come in pairs
How much money should be included in that red envelope, which is both beautiful and not misleading?
If you want to say the most favorite numbers of the Chinese, they are 6 and 8.
The number 8 is very popular among Chinese, people say".888, Fa Fa Fa FaFirst of all, the homonym of 8 is very auspicious.
8 No matter what occasion it is used, it will be synonymous with atmosphere and wealth.
Whether it is ordinary people or businessmen, they all have a soft spot for the number 8.
So if the family conditions are not bad, give the child a package800 red envelopesAbsolutely.
Secondly, in Chinese culture, 6 has always been considered an auspicious number, symbolizing harmony and smoothness, and the word 66 Dashun is a good illustration.
You can't be wrong to give a red envelope about 6 during the New Year, but 60 has a whole thing, which is not good-looking, and 66 is a pile of loose money, which will make you look stingy.
So600 is more suitable6 brand-new 100 yuan stuffed into the red envelope, which is not only beautiful and beautiful, but also will show respect for the other party's family.
At this time, someone will ask: It's just a very general relationship, and there are relatively few contacts, and it is a bit too much to give 600, and I am afraid that it will be a little difficult for the family to bear it.
If the relationship is really average, and your family living conditions are limited, you can get one in a red envelope$100Yes, I believe that the children who receive the red envelopes will also be very happy.
And the child's family will not be angry because of the 100 yuan, after all, this is a human relationship, and there is no difference between going and returning.
So do you remember? The universal number of red envelopes for children is and 100, and it is not wrong to make a choice according to your family situation and specific characters.
During the Chinese New Year, when the children received the red envelopes from their elders, they were happy and joyful, but they also did not forget some small details.
When receiving red envelopes, adults should also teach children in a timely mannerTake the red envelope with both hands, to show respect for the elders, must not be held with one hand, this will appear that the child is very impolite.
Although the children will be very happy when they receive the red envelope, eager to know how much money is in the red envelope, it is also taboo to open the red envelope in person, so try to avoid it.
When it comes to the amount of New Year's red envelopes, let's talk about the current oneSocial ethosAlthough the meaning of red envelopes is very good, adults and children like it very much, but it will also make some people feel that giving red envelopes has become a kind of thingburden
Every year during the Chinese New Year, relatives and friends bring their children to visit the New Year, which is a very happy thing for the elderly in the countryside, but the matter of giving the children New Year's money is obviously felt someUnable to do it
The elderly in rural areas are old, and most of them have no income, so it is a big burden for them to pay for the New Year.
And now because the children are exposed to more new things, the children's comparison has become particularly serious, and the New Year's money has increased from the initial 5 yuan and 10 yuan to the current 500 yuan.
For the elderly in rural areas, such an amount of money is no longer a New Year's money, but a large amount of expenditure that crushes the elderly.
New Year's money is brought to the elderlyFinancial burdenThere is a general trend, and this phenomenon will only get worse if it is not corrected.
For example, the people of Guangdong are doing very well, and compared with other regions, Guangdong is a place with a good economic development trend, but the local people generally do not pay so much attention to the amount of New Year's money.
It is generally 10 yuan and 20 yuan, and the children will not be afraid of the money when they receive the New Year's red envelope, but will be very happy to accept the blessings of the elders.
So that's what we should be looking forChinese virtues, instead of blind comparison and vanity, let the New Year's money change the "taste".
The meaning of New Year's money is not only the good wishes of the elders to the juniors, but also a kind of itSpiritual heritage
So we can't just ask for it and take it for granted, and on a festive day like the Chinese New Year, it's good to give some red envelopes to the elders.
On the one hand, it expresses respect and blessings for the elderly, and on the other hand, it can set a good example for the childrenTeach by exampleOnly then can children get rid of some bad habits, so that they can grow up healthier and happier.
Finally, I wish you all good luck and happiness in the Year of the Dragon!
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