During this year's Spring Festival, Jia Ling's "Hot and Hot" became a hot search.
In the movie, "Waste Wood Girl" Le Ying was depressed and depressed after suffering successive blows from life and the workplace, but she rewrote her life because of boxing.
After watching it, many viewers shouted and felt empathy, as if they were seeing their own lives.
I have heard such a sentence: Who said that when people reach middle age, everything will rest, and when they live to middle age, they feel that things are man-made.
If you want to find your own hot life, you must know the three truths of changing your life in middle age.
Finding yourself is more important than anything else.
Le Ying, after graduating from university, gave up her job and stayed at home for more than ten years, closed her circle of friends and isolated from the world.
She slept until the afternoon every day and woke up, but she still felt weak.
I don't know who I am, I don't know what I can do, I can't find the meaning of my existence.
My sister dislikes her, she is still gnawing at the old in her 30s, after a verbal exchange, Le Ying and her sister had a big fight, and finally she ran away from home.
She met someone she liked and was a boxing coach.
Influenced by the other party, Le Ying began to get in touch with boxing, but at first she practiced boxing purely because of love.
Until, she accompanied her boss to drink and was harassed; Helping relatives record programs and being used; persuaded her boyfriend not to fake boxing, but her boyfriend told her to get out of ......
A series of emotional backlogs made her finally choose suicide, but fortunately she did not succeed.
If you don't die in a great disaster, you will have a blessing in the future.
The idea of a change and a new self popped into her head, and she started to take boxing seriously.
She practices boxing every day and dreams of competing in boxing matches in order to win once and prove her worth.
As soon as many people reach middle age, the pressure of life and the unsatisfactory career are all consuming their fighting spirit.
This is precisely because I don't know what I live for.
When I Found Myself, there is this sentence:
When I found myself, I was born again, and the world in front of me was different from the past. ”
Only by finding yourself can you live your own life and truly feel the meaning and value of life.
Master Li Shutong once said:
The most meaningful thing in this life is to find your original self, understand the meaning of your existence, know your own way back, and let yourself become a lamp that illuminates yourself and all sentient beings. ”
As a human being, it is inevitable that there will be confusion. The only thing that can move forward with certainty is the "original intention".
When we always maintain a clear self-awareness, are not affected by the environment, and are not hit by difficulties, can we keep the clouds open and see the moon.
Endure the pain of "molting", and life can be renewed.
Some people say: Molting hurts before you can break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly.
The life that can really be counterattacked must go through the test of time and the tempering of growth.
The 30s are the retirement age for female boxers, and Cola Ying still has to sign up for boxing competitions because she doesn't believe it.
She was told that she needed to go through a technical test to compete in boxing, and even the club owner questioned her, believing that even if she trained for a year or two, it would be enough.
But she still didn't give up.
From the beginning of the tentative contact with pear ball, to a series of solid and powerful boxing training.
I practiced every day from morning to night, sweat like droplets, swaying down, wetting each piece of clothing.
Playing pear ball, practicing walking, in order to enhance physical fitness, running, weightlifting, and skipping rope did not fall.
The boxing level assessment finally changed from unqualified to qualified again and again, and she survived every darkest moment and successfully stood on the competition field.
Every pain makes people grow.
Life will not always be smooth sailing, and if you survive the hardest days, life will be more valuable.
Le Ying is like this, and so is Jia Ling.
The road to acting is not smooth, and in the process of chasing her dreams, every time Jia Ling unlocks a new identity, she suffers from the unbearable hardships of others.
In the early years of Beipiao, she rented an unheated basement, ate cold and hard steamed buns, and participated in performances for only seven yuan.
From a comedian to a variety of celebrities, in order to increase the effect of the show, Jia Ling disregarded her image, ate chili peppers, drank beer, and frantically nibbled on watermelon ......
Over the years, behind Jia Ling's laughter and laughter to everyone, she has stayed up countless nights and rehearsed countless scripts.
In order to shoot the movie "Hello, Li Huanying", in the past four years, she turned down many good job opportunities.
For the new role, she tried her best, and in many crash moments, she gritted her teeth and survived.
Even the fitness coach who accompanied her to exercise couldn't help but sigh
Only those who have witnessed it know how difficult this year is, and it is gratifying that Le Ying succeeded, and a new Jia Ling was born at the same time. ”
Behind all the new looks, there is suffering. A good life does not fall from the sky, but boils it out by itself. When you get through the dark moments of your life, that experience can become another treasure to help you start a new journey.
When you get stronger, the whole world will give way to you.
Teacher Mo Yan said:
The most terrible thing in this world is that people who are better than us are even more desperate than us. So, you have to work hard and fight. When you are strong enough, the world will be kind to you; When you're strong enough, the whole world makes way for you. ”
Everyone who struggles in this world is a star that exudes a unique light.
In the past, Le Ying was always cautious, and when she was dating someone she liked, she didn't dare to walk side by side.
But when she ignited her fighting spirit and decided to participate in the boxing match, many people couldn't help but burst into tears when she saw Le Ying slowly regaining her vitality.
Although she failed to win the competition, all the people who looked down on her in the past applauded her when they saw her change.
Because, in the boxing ring, Le Ying showed unprecedented tenacity and perseverance.
She has proved herself with sweat and hard work, and has also won the respect and recognition of those around her.
The strong seek everything for themselves, and the weak for everything.
Seeking guilt in case of trouble is the beginning of a person's strength.
When a person becomes stronger, he will have his own magnetic field, which can gather all kinds of forces around him.
The road of life will naturally be smoother.
When people reach middle age, only by making themselves strong will they find a way out of adversity.
Born from the heart, the only way to change your fate is to change your own concept. ”
At any time, each of us must find ourselves again, bravely swing our fists at life, endure the pain of molting, and continue to strengthen ourselves.
When people reach middle age, they need to come to the scene to change their lives.
Turn around gorgeously again and again, unlock a new self, and welcome your own hot life.